Hey there, Zeddd. Great post! Kudos to you for raising this question early on and not waiting until you'd moved further down the path toward a committed relationship. There doesn't seem to be an easy answer to your dilemma. However, I don't think it has to be an all-or-nothing situation. I'd have to second Giles' response. Maybe you can continue to rewire with this guy as cuddle buddies but look for something more fully fledged elsewhere. You've had tricky conversations with this guy about your PIED before, so maybe he can handle the let's-be-friends-with-benefits talk. If you're able to get that out in the open, maybe you'll feel differently about continuing to rewire with him while doing other dating, too. I like what you said about not being able to juggle more than one guy. I can relate to that. However, recently I'm finding that dating more than one guy at once actually helps me stay a bit more centered. Because all of my eggs aren't in one basket, I find that I'm just a bit more sane than I would be if all my energy was invested in just one person. Just a thought!