You Know NOFAP Is Working When...

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by Roronoa Zoro, Aug 15, 2013.

  1. zombieguy

    zombieguy New Member

    Well so far, no women are looking at me or winking at me or anything like that. I guess it's early days although it's not the end of the world if it doesn't happen.
  2. Ruhtra

    Ruhtra Member

    ... when you can get it up.
  3. zefizzle

    zefizzle Guest

    Lol I just noticed how Zoro had been talking in green text before the counter-color was changed to green

    trendsetter 8)
  4. EvergreeAshes

    EvergreeAshes Every day can hold something beautiful.

    Female here. I know NOFAP is working for my guy when...

    He can play with the kids and actually laugh.
    He cries thinking about the way he's treated us.
    He kisses me without wanting to gag or feeling overwhelmed.
    He grabs my ass -in the grocery store!-
    He says "I love you" like he understands the feeling.
    He enjoys visiting family, makes them laugh, and is the life of the party!
    We make love (Karezza) for two and a half hours and he tells me I can come wake him up anytime *wink*
  5. When strangers that you meet are suddenly friendly, and not ice-cold for no reason like they used to be. It's so fucking weird, but man, everyone I meet seems ultra friendly to me and I find that I can make conversation no problem. Before I probably would've wanted to cross the street to avoid someone.
  6. calmwinter

    calmwinter Guest

    When I can cry again. I can't cry when I fap.
  7. FacebookVirus

    FacebookVirus New Member

    Good to know, I guess. I'm not the only one getting ignored for no reason. I always figured it was just the lack of customer service these days. In fact, I got ignored by the cute girl at the fast food place today.

    I wasn't thinking anything about her at all beyond noticing she was cute. Still, she must have picked up something.

    That's the main difference for me, though - I can say confidently I didn't get porny thoughts about a woman and be genuinely puzzled if she ignores me for no reason. Much clearer thoughts.

    In my forties, also, and I haven't been surprised at how deep my voice sounds since I was about 14.

    Edit: Forgot about the woman working retail - much closer to my age and a realistic interest for me. I spoke with her yesterday, too, and she was very welcoming and warm. Could have spoken with her more.

    You Know NOFAP Is Working When...You look a woman in the eyes and realize she is genuinely attractive, without any porny thoughts or images in your mind.
  8. A New Man

    A New Man White Knuckle Brigade 2013

    A couple more-

    You can change positions in the middle of sex and keep going.
    You start dreaming about fucking your wife again.
  9. daone

    daone Where I'm gonna be ought to be uncharted

    When you can hit on random girls and you no longer turn red or look away from eye contact
    Improved muscle definition
    Smiling for no reason sometimes
  10. Napoleon Hill

    Napoleon Hill New Member

    . . . instead of quickly closing down your web browser to hide porn from your girlfriend, you quickly close your browser to hide a Gary Wilson podcast.

    This just happened to me ;D .
  11. The Painkiller

    The Painkiller New Member

    -You start to notice girls looking at you and start to think that they fancy you. You also get the occasional smile.
    -You dont waste your energy
    -You are more motivated to study
    -You lift better.
    -You start to think you look handsome
    -You start to talk in a deeper voice. Less nervous so instead of using your head voice, you use your diaphragm.
  12. The Painkiller

    The Painkiller New Member

    Actually, today at this restaurant, there was this beautiful waitress. I locked eyes with her for a split second and she looked away and then had developed a very embarrassed smile so I knew there was something. I hardly believed it was real. I reckon it was because of no PMO and me taking pride in my appearence. Also, 4 relatives came over, so I was full of energy and having a load of fun and she probably got that vibe. I tend to be more energetic in larger groups. I need company to be confident. I hate being without people.
  13. NightsWatch

    NightsWatch Member

    When you miss having orgasms.... from an actual woman.
    When you start making more and more friends.
    When sitting at home behind a computer screen isn't as fun as it use to be. (I haven't played video games in 2months.)
    You start shedding off your ego and see who you really are.
    Little activities make their way into your daily routine. - You also kind of have a routine.
    You start wondering what else is out there for you.
    When porn use to curb the urge, now it's depressing if you did it again.
    When you miss your girlfriend and realize a part of you is vulnerable too.
    When you have spiritual experiences and see the bigger picture.
    When you pick up a book again.
    When you have much more energy to expel.
    When you think about others.
    When you reflect upon yourself.
    When you want to return to normalcy, and no matter how tough the storm is, you don't give in all the way.
  14. Ruhtra

    Ruhtra Member

    When being single is a pain in the ass and when seeing a couple kissing in the street makes you go nuts. Ha ha. : p
  15. You have urges to fap and you don't fap.

  16. Beautiful and spot on. Having good friends is awesome.
  17. The Painkiller

    The Painkiller New Member

    -You want to meet people and act a bit crazy around friends.

    Personally, although I acted quite introverted, I have realized that I am naturally more extroverted. ie I get more pumped with heaps of people around.
  18. jersey1

    jersey1 New Member

    - You flirt with women and receieve smiles from
    - Eye contact with women becomes natural
    - When you become interested in reading books rather than mindlessy surfing the net
    - You tend to smile at women
    - Women look at you then look at away when you catch them.
    - Waking up early and not being tired
    - Wetdreams happen
  19. daone

    daone Where I'm gonna be ought to be uncharted

    Fully agree with this, I don't exactly look friendly to begin with but lately random people have been smiling at me and saying hello, before if someone said good morning to me i would mumble something and get the feeling like *why the fuck are you talking to me, keep it moving* now i just respond and go about my business.
  20. MindPoison

    MindPoison Active Member

    ~When sleep becomes more refreshing. ::)

    ~When you're perfectly comfortable being single/alone and not desperate for a GF. ;D

    ~When you start having vivid dreams again at night that don't involve pr0n. :)

    ~When you don't feel like a zombie rising from its grave in the morning. :p

    ~When you start to actually give a damn about how you look and realize how much hair you have growing out of your nose and just how much you let yourself go. :eek:

    ~When you start remembering to put on deodorant before going out. :-[

    ~When you don't try to act out pr0n induced fetishes out in real life anymore. :)

    ~When you remember acting out pr0n induced fetishes and then you go "WHAT THE &*%5876 WAS I THINKING!?" :eek:

    ~When life doesn't feel like one long wait for those final moments at the hospital. :-\

    ~When you don't want to take out your rage on other people. :mad:

    ~When you start planning things you want to do with your life and not lack the will to live. :'(

    ~When smiling comes naturally... and not FORCED. :mad:

    ~When you don't have homicidal and/or suicidal thoughts anymore, or atleast not as frequently. ;D

    ~When the only time you get depressed is when you don't sleep good or things aren't going your way. 8)

    ~When you actually start to remember things you learned like 20 seconds ago. ;)

    ~When you start being more positive with your thinking. 8)

    ~When your hobbies become enjoyable again. 8)

    ~When you realize your life doesn't really suck as much as you thought it did. :)


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