You Know NOFAP Is Working When...

1) You come across a video of someone buying a homeless man clothes and food and a bed to sleep in for a day and go on a streak of watching people help the homeless and crying like a little girl because of new overwhelming emotions that nofap evokes.
2) You get the confidence to confess your love to a girl you've been talking to for 8+ months not caring about possible rejection and she happens to feel exactly the same.
3) You've went from edging and giving bedroom eyes to the ceiling in the morning to taking a nice 6-8 minute cold shower, 35 minutes of yoga + 30 minutes of meditation in the morning.
4) You walk outside for the first time in months then come back home and your dog acts like you've been missing for years. Acting as if you're a new person.
5) The new-found libido puts a kick behind what you say now you're flirting with girls left and right.

Keep it going!!

 

- every girl somehow senses your return to normalcy and they give you big signs of interest*
- you have a energy drive in your spirit that makes you more positive and productive
- you can handle yourself in virtually every situation 100x better
- you know you are making progress, slowly but surely!

* I really don't get how this works, because I really want to understand that point. The very same girl I went to deposit a company chq at the teller bank when I had binged that day (a couple months ago), looked annoyed with me (and has happened before when I PMO). About 25 days later, she is blushing and forcing a conversation with me when I am doing the exact same thing.
It's really awesome to have that advantage!

 

I was talking to this friend and she was like "How come you never offer to skype or call or anything etc etc etc. But you always accept if I offer" and I responded with "Why do you want me to offer to skype or call or etc etc etc" and she was like "Because it would be nice :3" That right there man. I want my brain to be clear enough to take the initiative with certain things and fast-forward progress with the opposite sex.

 

Do you guys notice more confidence in approaching/picking up women on the street? How many days of nofap do you need before you feel confident doing this? This is something I'm very interested in doing, but fapping puts you in a state of anxiousness, so when I even try to approach, my flight or fight kicks in and it puts me in a state of complete shock, and I end up chickening out. So how many days of nofap before you feel relatively comfortable approaching girls who are strangers?

 

- you work on projects that you have avoided before
- girls look out for you because they feel save around you
- bullies and annoying men are avoiding you because they are intimidated by your confidence
- older people give you meaningful advice because they sense what you are doing
- you naturally dominate a social group without making other people feel uncomfortable
- you notice manipulative situations before they are occuring
- when children look up to you as a role model

JerseyJay911.

I think the best thing to do is to stop caring about women for a while. Just work on your values that don't involve women. Once you notice that women are responding to you can start to have normal conversations with women. Just like you would talk to your friends. Don't worry about friendzone. Your goal here is to get a more human picture about women and not to get into their pants. Focus on the subject you are talking about and don't waste your time trying to outguess her. Once you are natural about this, women of all ages will be very attracted to you. You can then start to have relationships or sex with them. But make sure that your intentions stay positive and sincere. Once a girl notice that you are using her or resent women in general, she will usually avoid you.

 

-You wake up, go downstairs and play Skyrim and listen to music whilst looking out at the morning sun, and still get to work on time (instead of lazily lying in till last minute, fapping and going in late).

 

You exercise your out-of-shape body for the first time in years.

 

Life becomes a reason to wake up in the morning..

 

Ah one day I'll have something to post in here...

 

188 days since porn
75 since MO, come on lol

 

When your eyes are not blurry for an entire day from looking at a comp screen for hours............

 

Everyones experience is different. Most people get a mix of benefits and withdrawals, I've basically only got withdrawals and they're still on going.

 

This is a great thread....

 

The only time you go into your room is to sleep.

 

I've noticed how women are now reacting to me with smiles and flirts.

I believe this energy is all spiritual in nature.

I feel more pure and life has new meaning!

 

You no longer look at the ground but instead straight a head when walking. You also no longer take things personally.

 

.. girls start looking more beautiful to you.

And they start being more attracted to you.

 

When the bra section of the Macy's catalog does it for you again.

 

lol so true!