Women trying to seduce me.. If i say to her "can you please stop and cut it out im not Interested"

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by auzzie_mikey, Oct 10, 2019.

  1. auzzie_mikey

    auzzie_mikey Active Member

    If i say to a woman upfront who's trying to seduce me... "can you not make me feel uncomfortable? I'm really not interested and can you please cut it out?" Is that rude?

    I'm a lawyer and in meetings in close proximity if a client who is a woman is trying to seduce me, can i say words to that effect and call out the elephant in the room?" can you not make me feel uncomfortable? I'm really not interested and can you please cut it out?" Is that rude?"
     
  2. Gil79

    Gil79 Seize the day

    Yes, it is. Better make a gesture to show to back off that is more subtile. Would it also work to wear a wedding ring? Or another symbol that shows you're unavailable?
     
  3. Doper

    Doper Member

    Mikey, is it at all possible that these women are in fact NOT trying to seduce you?
    I'm sure if you started a journal folks would be happy to assist you there and we could get a better understanding of situations rather than numerous disjointed threads.
     
  4. Joshua Shea

    Joshua Shea Active Member

    @auzzie_mikey I think that tact could backfire on you. First, if they're not seducing you, it's incredibly awkward. Second, if you call them out on it, they're probably going to deny it even if they were. I agree with @Gil79 in that you need to have major hints that you're uninterested. Maybe something as simple as, "You really look like my wife's sister" when you first meet somebody, or pictures on your desk. You have every right to turn someone down, but I think in a female client-hired guy relationship, you need to be more careful than a typical male-female one.
     
  5. doneatlast

    doneatlast Active Member

    Agreed. You seem to routinely post essentially the same question every couple weeks or so, some variation of women trying to seduce you or steal your semen. I really don't think posting the same thing over and over will do much good. A journal might help. Honestly, I think much more needs to be done to know what is REALLY going on. Either you're the biggest stud in your country and women flock to you in an insanely cartoonish manner, or you're suffering from obsessive thinking. I'd be more focused on the latter.
     
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  6. auzzie_mikey

    auzzie_mikey Active Member

    Yes mate it did backfire on me. I said to a woman that you are making me feel uncomfortable and I can no longer talk to you and she complained to my boss.
     
  7. Joshua Shea

    Joshua Shea Active Member

    @auzzie_mikey Don't worry man, according to you, another one is just around the corner.
     
  8. Doper

    Doper Member

    Mikey, I really hope this is the catalyst to your realization that your obsessive and extreme negative views of sex and women are going to torpedo you're career and even more importantly your life. Do you think there is a single successful man in the whole world that shares your views? I can tell you right now there isn't. It's to a point where I'm not even sure if these are your real views or you are just a troll. I've actually thought if you are a troll, the stuff you post is kind of funny....For example that "Masters of Semen Retention" thread you posted. That was gold. But if you are not a troll, then you have to get out of this way of thinking immediately, or if you need a change of medication (which is what I'm leaning towards) then you have to talk to your doctor about it immediately. Because your patterns of thinking are a sinking ship and are IN NO WAY HEALTHY. I find people on this forum are accommodating to a fault, the fact no one has told you yet that this stuff you post is completely unhinged does you a disservice because it makes you think it's normal, it ain't.
    Have you spoken to a professional about your views? Because I am quite sure they would take interest.
     
    Last edited: Oct 13, 2019
  9. auzzie_mikey

    auzzie_mikey Active Member

    Thank you for your advice. I do take it into consideration. But firstly I am not a troll but am 100% serious as to what I post. Yes I learned what you said about career and way in life if I openly say I am not comfortable etc etc.

    I've never said my views to anyone like that explicitly. That was the first time when I said I'm feeling uncomfortable.
     
  10. Joshua Shea

    Joshua Shea Active Member

    It's the little things that make me smile.
     
  11. auzzie_mikey

    auzzie_mikey Active Member

    It's funny how you guys think I'm trolling but I'm 100% per cent serious about all these things
     
  12. axebattler

    axebattler New Member

    Some guys have an allergic reaction to their own semen or something like that, don't they?

    Is that what you have?
     
  13. auzzie_mikey

    auzzie_mikey Active Member

    Yes mate it might be something related to that. Or I suffer from post orgasmic illness syndrome
     
  14. Doper

    Doper Member

    Ok Mikey, then how about we have a conversation about these things you're serious about.

    -Why are you so uncomfortable around women, want nothing to do with them, and why are you scared of them "relentlessly seducing" you?
    -Why do you never want to have sex or cum for the rest of your life, and what is this fear about "releasing precum"?

    What are the symptoms you get after nutting?
     
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  15. axebattler

    axebattler New Member

    Have you looked into the whole "karezza" thing? Although if even precum is a problem for you that might not work, I dunno.

    As for female attraction due to avoiding PMO, that happens to me as well... or does it? I think a lot it is in our heads. Abstaining seems to make your brain want to trick you into thinking that loads of women are attracted to you. We're not mind readers though. It's good to have other non-triggering things to think about.
     
  16. auzzie_mikey

    auzzie_mikey Active Member

    My body completely shuts down after I O. It's not that I don't enjoy sex or women seducing me. I've learned after years of dealing with O and sex that after P, my mind and body completely becomes weak and completely depleted.. I have a loss of energy and can't do things properly at all.
     
  17. auzzie_mikey

    auzzie_mikey Active Member

    I want to avoid all karezza and all forms of sexual activity.
     

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