wierd behavior change when stopping porn and masturbation

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  1. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    Good day

    I wanted to share my experience of no fap and no porn. I’ve been 3 months clean of no porn and masturbation and this is what I experience:

    I have the normal benefits that everyone reports : more confidence and more passion for life. I basically don’t care what other people think of me. I have more motivation to fulfil my dreams and passion. In my case its my job accountancy starting to study more and starting to teach more.


    However I was surprised by a other side effect i don’t have the urge to seduce woman so I can get sex. Yes you would think that no fap and stopping porn will give you the motivation to seduce woman and talk to them but in my experience it didn’t. So what happened?

    I am so bussy with my passion and friends I really don’t care that I don’t have a girlfriend. I usually talk to girls casual and get to know them better and I don’t even care if I get their phone number. Its usually the girl that chases me to get me into a relationship and have sex with me.


    But the most disturbing thing that I experienced was I don’t find woman with lot of make up and high heels or small skirts attractive I think they are stupid. Basically sluts are not attractive. Looks are less important and I find myself more attractive to a woman who I have a real connection with a woman you can talk well with..


    So bottom line: I was happy single and didn’t have the urge to have sex. The only urge I had to have sex was when I felt a connection with someone.I've never had this feeling in my whole life i alllways felt stupid and a loser when i didn't had sex or a girfriend now i don't care.

    Did anyone else have this experience?
     
  2. Collins

    Collins New Member

    I think i do too.
    Sometimes when am alone, i feel the need to have sexual intimacy, buh when am close to a woman, i can say i dont feel any sexual attractions. ( just over 4 weeks clean tho with no masturbation and no porn) . Also woke up this morning to find myself wet with cum, i think i had a wet dream. Dunno if u also experienced that?
     
  3. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    I didn't had wet dreams but i did cum in my pants when i had sexual thoughts during daytimes yes i jizzed my pants during daytime pretty wierd. I have a topic about it =
    http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/...-pants-at-the-slightest-sexual-thought.36620/

    However i find a sollution to it i stop fantasising and start walking around.

    To prevent wet dreams i would advise you to read a book before going to sleep it helpt me to have not sexual dreams read this :
    http://www.lifehack.org/371544/these-6-amazing-things-will-happen-you-read-before-bed-2
     
    Last edited: May 10, 2017
  4. lookingforlove

    lookingforlove looking to have meaningful and satisfying sex

    "i don’t have the urge to seduce woman so I can get sex"

    Be proud of it.
    What is depraved is seeking sex with women you do not even know. Do we really need more broken hearts, illegitimate children, dead-end relationships?
    (Sometimes, i myself am guilty as charged)
    Having and retaining your spunk, feeling like a man, having women chase YOU...... is better than drunken/meaningless sex.
    Go for the gold, brother. A woman who is hot and you love.
     
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  5. lookingforlove

    lookingforlove looking to have meaningful and satisfying sex

    By the way, yes, I do have this experience.
    I don't try to just fuck.

    And i could tell you some experiences I had since then...you wouldn't believe me! :)

    It makes sense: you are breaking the addiction to ejaculative orgasm. Whether PMO or one-night-stands, same thing.
     
  6. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    Why don't you share youre experiences? it will benefit the forum and other people to stop this adiction.


    My experiences is like you said WOMAN CHASE YOU. You don't really care about sex you care about achieving goals or having fun. Woman are now using sex to seduce me.. instead of me seducing them to get sex. What a world of change..
     
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  7. guitahplayah

    guitahplayah New Member

    Hello, pieterarons15,

    I've just been abstinent now for almost a week. (I'm 58) I think that not caring is really good; I think not caring means that you're not measuring your insides to other people's outsides. I think that's really good.

    Peace to you from Massachusetts,
    guitahplayah
     
  8. lookingforlove

    lookingforlove looking to have meaningful and satisfying sex

    OK, here are two:

    I was dancing at this club at noon on a Sunday. (There was a festival)
    And a girl started looking at me and "reeling me in" with her fingers pointed at me then curled to her, "come to me". I thought she must be looking at a friend! :). Nope, She insisted: "get over here". I did.
    But not before I teased her a bit and ignored her.
    She was all over me, pressing into me, grabbing my thighs, whispering in my ear. I left her in 10 minutes, she was drunk, but it was a helluvan ego boost.

    I joined a yoga gym. All women, all yoga pants...:D
    I met a girl the first class. We had lunch right then. Turns out she is married and she right away offered to be my wingman, giving me the lowdown on teachers, who is hot, who is taken etc. Every time I go, we meet up and I now feel more at home, rather than the loner guy there.

    Good stories. True too! :)

    Glad you are doing well, buddy!
     
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  9. FranklyPut40

    FranklyPut40 Member

    OMG these are fantastic stories. Thanks for sharing you guys.
     
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