I stopped PMO in August, and am counting from 1 September, so I've been going 77 days. I used internet porn for years, but more recently while single. I've experienced a lot of what others write in their stories, like edging, long night time sessions, and escalation. I also think I have PIED, maybe mixed in with performance anxiety or other causes. I have fetishes, but mostly since I was young. I enjoy them, and my goal isn't to get rid of them. I think porn may have added some twists, so if I lose them, fine. I think if I can do a full factory reset, I'll lose about 10% of my current fantasies. I've not been finding it hard to keep away from porn. I just don't do it. I don't have cravings. I'm not masturbating, which is actually great. I think I want to give it up for good, and that it's going to feel brilliant in future to know I only ever come with a woman. It's harder to keep away from fantasy, but I think I'm winning the fight. It's hard to keep away from PSUBS like dating sites, and some other triggers out there in normal life. Again though I think I'm winning. I've not been on a dating site in the 77 days, and I'm looking at women less in the street. I've not had relapses except occasional fantasy, and occasional touching. I think the trick is to just stop the relapse and not beat yourself up about it. I've started doing more exercise and to eat better, but am letting this be a manly treat for me. I'm eating steak more than I used to. But in a healthy way, and just to feel good. I noticed some euphoric feelings really quickly, in the first week or so. Since then that's gone away, and I just feel normal. No cravings. No unusual energy or interest from women. I might be getting similar dopamine hits from social media, though. So I want to limit that. I've noticed morning wood twice in the last two weeks, and about three days ago I had a "wet dream". But I'm not that interested in sex at the moment, and don't feel like I'm going to have erections with a woman soon. I think I must be in the flatline. I don't think my penis is unusually small or sensitive. It's just on holiday. I guess what I'm doing is hard mode. The plan is to do 100 days, then stop counting. (I actually don't count day by day now, either. I had to work it out when I wrote 77 earlier). From 2018 I'll just be a man who doesn't do porn, and doesn't masturbate. Those are my first two goals. The final one is to have erections again like I used to years ago. I just hope that happens before long. If not, I'll still have gained from rebooting, will never go back to porn, and will ask my doctor about organic causes of ED. I'm not planning on visiting here often, but am willing you all to do well. My tips are these. Just let porn go, and don't tell yourself you'll have cravings. I think it helps not to masturbate, or even to touch except in the bathroom. Avoid all PSUBS and fantasy. Avoid dating sites during the reboot. Limit internet time generally, and don't take up an alternative addiction like gaming. Read, listen to music, eat better, do some exercise. Reward yourself by doing things you really like. Don't beat yourself up about any sort of relapse: just stop, and move on. Every time you successfully master your thoughts or stop a relapse, feel your self-control growing. Try to get into the idea of becoming a better, more self-controlled and sexier man, and of a future sex life that's entirely about fucking your girlfriend or wife.