When You Pump Iron The Girls Approach You!

Discussion in 'Social Advice' started by ted93704, Jul 15, 2015.

  1. Sounds a bit like fantasy mate. The fact you say you can bench press 365lbs after 4 months of training removes all credibility.
     
  2. Iamahumanbeing

    Iamahumanbeing New Member

    yeah I can bench 190 after a year, that guy is full of shit.
     
  3. ted93704

    ted93704 Keep Your Heads Up!

    previous experience...just took pretty long hiatus..haha
     
  4. ted93704

    ted93704 Keep Your Heads Up!

    are you not familiar with muscle memory?
     
  5. Nowist

    Nowist Believe that you can and you will.

    Uh. Cool. So is the lesson of pumping iron just to get girls, or is it for you to improve your own physical structure? Interesting to see how peoples see their own body, to simply bang girls and not have a tangible/real relationship. Of course this is just my own opinion.
     
  6. Dicer

    Dicer Member

    Well it's basic advice but it's still good advice.

    Sometimes the most simple things are the most effective ones.

    If you are fat then lose some weight, if you are skinny build some muscles and if you are skinny-fat loose the weight first and then build the muscles. You don't need to look like a bodybuilder, but a lean body with abs and some muscles definitely helps to get girls. It also improves your confidence and you get healthier and fitter.

    I also don't see the problem if your reason for working out are girls. I think most of the guys, who workout want to look better to get more attention from girls, maybe there are also other reasons but I think it's one of the main reasons for most of the guys.
     
  7. ted93704

    ted93704 Keep Your Heads Up!

    I think you are right Arrow! the underlying reason for most of what we do is to improve our reproductive success!
     
  8. breath

    breath Member

    things are never totally on dimensional.
    If someone pumps iron at first in hopes of attracting womn for sex..

    other things can't not happen.


    fitness,
    excitement
    other kinds of fitness could get thrown in to the mix.
    things related to muscles related to overall physical health
    related to mental spiritual health
    on and on.

    better not to evaluate. there are many keys to many doors to many woman . on and on.

    we needn't prejudge our own impetus
     
  9. kira

    kira Member

    Ironically this sounds so like a porn scenerio/story.

    But I have noticed feeling good about myself by gymming regularly. Its the endorphins that keep you in a good mood. I feel stronger.

    I think social skills are equally important. You dont necessarily need to be all bulked up to approach women. Confidence is the key.
     
  10. Dicer

    Dicer Member

    First gym gives you confidence, when your body improves your self esteem grows and you feel better after training.

    Second most girls are mirin aesthetics. When you get shredded you will get some girls. If you also have good social skills you are in a real good position to get some action.
     
  11. ItsPossible

    ItsPossible Active Member

    This forum. 8) Are you guys wearing really tight shirts? I have been going to the gym for a month now and it's great. Me working out is one way I’m diverting this pmo energy to good use. I’m feeling better, more confidence, stronger, and clothes fit better. I still have more gains to gain and weight to lose. So if I get ogled and hit on by a stranger. I’ll let you know since that hasn’t happened since…. :-\ My wife notices me losing weight, so that’s what matters anyways. A random girl would be a big confidence booster for sure.
     
  12. Greys0n

    Greys0n New Member

    I haven't come across this yet :D
     
  13. SpikeyCloud

    SpikeyCloud Member

    It's more the confidence and the love for yourself that you that attracts girls then the muscles. Hitting the gym takes care that you feel better about yourself because of improved brain chemistry. I wouldn't even want someone that is so shallow that only looks at muscles. The same as a girl does not want a guy that only likes her boobs.

    I'm pretty skinny and even though I go to the gym I can't get much mass. Still I'm approached by girls direct on indirect on a lot of nights going out. But this does happen a lot less often if I feel not confident or not at ease.

    Also you don't want to depend on other people how you feel about yourself. You might feel fine if a girls likes you, but it will backfire on you when you are rejected. Ultimately the self image is just an illusion, but that is another long discussion.
     
  14. LiLj

    LiLj New Member

    Never happen to me :[ and I bench 100lbs
     
  15. BruceWayne

    BruceWayne Building the life I want, day by day...

    It depends on the girl and it depends on how you feel about yourself. Not all girls are attracted to guys with muscles. Not all guys with muscles get approached by women.
     
  16. Rogue99

    Rogue99 New Member

    4 months and you bench 365 prolly with flared the fuck out elbowes and power lifters ROM man I guess you ain't making you no gaaaains
     
  17. Rogue99

    Rogue99 New Member

    Yeah he troll with his misleading counter 600 days lol
     
  18. ted93704

    ted93704 Keep Your Heads Up!

    haha...nah, I don't flare the elbows..I used to before when I was younger and I got bad shoulder problmes as a result..this time around I smartenede up and learned to tuck my elbows..and I also started doing shoulder mobility exercises to avoid future problmes
     
  19. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    I rather make a lot of money at my job to show i have a lot of fitness
     
  20. niskanen91

    niskanen91 Active Member

    I had the same philosophy but tbh it's quite flawed - do you want to have a girl sleeping with you just because she's attracted to your wallet and not your body? I think both things - career and physical appearance are important.
     

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