What Is Most Important?

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by ted93704, Feb 6, 2016.

  1. ted93704

    ted93704 Keep Your Heads Up!

    What is the difference between doing nothing and doing something?

    Can you build muscle by reading advice online or in magazine? Or
    do you not have to go lift weights yourself? The answer is of course
    patently obvious. Abstaining from porn will not fix your problem. It will
    help but it is not the answer you seek. The ultimate goal is to have satisfactory
    penetrative sex with a real life woman! By overcoming this obstacle you will overcome
    so many things in your life. 1) You will conquer fear of failure by approaching women
    and trying to have sex with them. 2) You will learn to be innovative (by trying things like
    Cialis, Viagra, Penis pump, exercise, vitamins and herbs. 3) You will learn about what turns
    you on and what turns you off. 4) you will learn to be patient with yourself and to accept yourself
    as you are!

    Guys, the most important thing you can do for yourself is to get a woman. A woman to have sex with!
    That is the most important thing. Get out there and look!
     
  2. FedorE

    FedorE New Member

    Well that's great, but the problem is most women won't be willing to be with you unless you can sex them.
     
  3. ted93704

    ted93704 Keep Your Heads Up!

    nope, you are wrong about that
    before I got cuted of PIED I had women
    tell me I was the best lover they ever had
    because i focued on foreplay
     
  4. mikey22

    mikey22 New Member

    do you not think it's beneficial to be 90 days PMO free in order to have the confidence in yourself before you chase women?
     
  5. ted93704

    ted93704 Keep Your Heads Up!

    why 90? why not 30 days? I think you are right in that its good to build up your confidence to not PMO
    but its more important to be able to get women!
     
  6. mikey22

    mikey22 New Member

    well it gives more time for P pathways to weaken and you're more likel;y to have great sex right?

    when i reach 30 days i wanna try and get laid again. but the only trouble is if i suffer PIED or i have a bad time, in the past i've relapsed to P again (crazy i know)

    i'm sure it will be fine. while i wait for my counter to hit 30 days, i'm gonna try not to go partying much and just get my studies done. then fuck it when i'm on a month i'm gonna go crazy and try and get poon :p
     
  7. MikeElam55

    MikeElam55 Guest

    So what would you suggest to a guy(myself) who is on Day 41, and tried yesterday to have sex and struggled staying hard, and was dealing with performance anxiety and maybe PIED(who knows). Should i just leave sex alone(with the girl i'm talking too) and try again in another few months, and just continue the physical all leading up to sex(kissing,touching ect), or should i keep trying?
     
  8. ted93704

    ted93704 Keep Your Heads Up!

    maybe take a middle approach! do the kissing and touching as much as possible...preferably daily if you can...and maybe like once a week try to have sex with her!...there are other options for you too to speed up the process..you can try using Cialis or Viagra, you can even try a penis pump..which traps blood in your penis..then you put a ring around the base to keep teh blood in your dick..both options work...its a good day to speed up the process as it allows you to have sex even though its artifical...but it lets your brain know whats happening!
     
  9. MikeElam55

    MikeElam55 Guest

    I'm only 26, will viagra/ cialis help? Thanks. I'm going complete these first 90 days and start having sex consistently. Practice makes perfect
     

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