I ain't angry at women. Just deluded. Most women, like 90% of them, claim to look for those things in a man: - confident - funny - emotionally stable/intelligent - honest - overall, "nice" (notice the quotes around the word) - fit/attractive But at the same time the same 90% seems to invariably fall for a man that is just extremely confident, regardless of he being rich, attractive, honest, intelligent or whatever else. Therefore my point is that most women claim to look for some characteristics while they in truth will accept much less. Of course there's that 10% of women that are true to themselves and won't date "assholes" or guys that don't match what they have in mind. Fine. Wish there were more of them. I haven't had the luck to meet any of them so far but I acknowledge they exist. For this reason I stopped wondering what women want. They'll tell you what they "think" they want but don't what they actually want. On the other hand, men don't write long poems on dating sites claiming they would like to meet "intellectually challenging" or "humourous" women that they will fall in love with and live happily forever together. If it's attractive, men will want to fuck with. Which is, you got to admit, much more honest than those 90% of women I was talking about above.