We've been rekindling the marriage, but I been jerking to porn regularly

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by breath, Aug 31, 2019.

  1. breath

    breath Member

    I want sex more than my wife... But.. It's great when we have it. I will need to masturbate to fill the gaps though.


    I have a Masters Degree to finish and the porn is taking away my focus.

    September is here, time to get on track - hence I'm back on this site!

    I'm feeling positive although I do know I have a destructive, wasteful habit..

    Good September everyone!
     
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  2. breath

    breath Member

    maybe I'll set the bar lower and try masturbating without porn - and of course trying to get the wife interested. She is sleeping in maybe i'll go lie with her now..... even it it doesn't turn to sex it is still a good thing.
     
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  3. Boxer17

    Boxer17 Active Member

    i'll go lie with her now..... even it it doesn't turn to sex it is still a good thing

    Yes, that is a good thing. The cuddling and closeness does bring with it , bonding.
     
  4. breath

    breath Member

    yes, and can extend the olive branch out of a cold stand ..
     
  5. breath

    breath Member

    When my wife on her period, or pre...... she can be nasty.

    On one hand I believe in compassion - it'd a well enough known phenom...

    On the other it reminds me, teaches me to see negative conduct that may usually /frequently be there -but not so exagerrated - in other times of her cycle..
     
  6. breath

    breath Member

    meanwhile I got work to do and not fritter time and energy on porn
     

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