Went to a brothel this is what happened

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by randomname, Feb 22, 2014.

  1. neale

    neale New Member

    yeah stop giving "advice" on what type of sex behaviours carry the least risk of STI's..

    none of us are doctors (i think!)

    unless we do have any health professionals lurking here, in which case feel free to comment! otherwise i'm not trusting anyone on a porn addiction forum on what is and isn't safe sexually.
  2. Meatloaf

    Meatloaf New Member

    I do not think judgment is constructive. I too think using prostitutes is by default "bad" but this value statement is something we can forget now.

    my point is more: screwing hookers, and fostering the idea like "every woman I see I just wanna rip there squirts off and fuck them" is not setting you closer to a point where you can have normal balanced sex life with a real female partner. Its putting you further from it. And trust me the goal of real sex life where both want it and are connected is a worthy goal.

    You say that women were staring at you - are you certain that they were staring at you with lust or just not staring back or staring you for one of the many other reasons than wanting you? The way you write its easy to imagine they could very well look at you thinking you are weird.

    Its somewhat dangerous to build up personal illusions of how women want you when you combine it with total objectifying of women and use of prostitutes.

    Take care of yourself, the hookers are not the answer
  3. Meatloaf

    Meatloaf New Member

    If this is the level of sex ed you got you better concentrate on learning and not on teaching.

    Seriously dude, that is load of shit.
  4. TheUnderdog

    TheUnderdog Active Member Staff Member

    You guys are clueless.

    Cunnilingus IS the safest sexual activity there is.

    Blowjobs, vaginal sex, and anal sex, are all riskier.

    Licking a woman's pussy is safer than getting your dick sucked.

  5. Meatloaf

    Meatloaf New Member

    With condom was the comparison... And suggested in the contex where OP was warned that he might catch something from a hooker. Which he very well might - sure other _unprotected_ ways of sex have higher risks (esp anal) it doesn't meant that you can't get nasties. And disease in you face isn't necessarily less anoying than on your dick...
  6. TheUnderdog

    TheUnderdog Active Member Staff Member

    I just noticed that.

    Yeah, I agree.

    From a guy's point of view, here are the activities from safest to riskiest:

    1) Protected blowjob/cunnilingus
    2) Unprotected cunnilingus
    3) Protected vaginal
    4) Protected anal
    5) Unprotected blowjob (receiving a BJ)
    6) Unprotected blowjob (giving a BJ)
    7) Unprotected vaginal
    8) Unprotected anal (penetrating)
    9) Unprotected anal (getting penetrated)

    #1 and #2 are almost completely risk free.

    There's a huge jump in risk from #6 to #7.

    And #9 is guaranteed to give you HIV.
  7. ted93704

    ted93704 Keep Your Heads Up!

    Sounds like fun. I love hearing a woman moan as I eat her out!
  8. SwimAddict

    SwimAddict New Member

    Oooops that was something I read on teh webz (you know that place where everything is true!) and it was about 90% true hahaha.

    Didn't mean to start a huge internet debate! On a positive side note, since apparently eating out is pretty darn safe after all lets all get girlfriends and make them verrrry happy ;D ;D ;D!
  9. Baghira

    Baghira New Member

    What i dont get: Why is UNPROTECTED cunnilingus safer than protected vaginal?
    Is this ranking true for only HIV-infection or generelly all STD?
  10. TheUnderdog

    TheUnderdog Active Member Staff Member

    It is extremely rare to catch anything from licking a woman's pussy.

    You are more likely to catch genital warts, molluscum contagiosum, and other minor skin-to-skin STDs from protected vaginal.
  11. Ryan94

    Ryan94 Began my life again on 21/03/2014 - Nowruz

    The odds of a HIV+ female infecting a male by having unprotected vaginal sex him is only 1 in 2000 (apparently! I know it sounds like BS).

    So it's probably for all STD's
  12. Ablaze

    Ablaze New Member

  13. Meatloaf

    Meatloaf New Member

    Yes agree with that sigh but

    HIV is not very easily transmitted disease. It generally needs slight tissue damage, abrasion or something. Other can transmit far easier so don't make the assumption that you could use the risk of HIV extrapolated to all diseases. Most others are just not as serious but still a pain. (And in in the rise because of lax attitudes)
  14. TheSupportiveWife

    TheSupportiveWife New Member

    Baahahahahahaha... Bbbaaahhhhahahahaha !

    THIS make me spew on my key board !!! TFF ! ;D ;D ;D ;D
  15. Osloman77

    Osloman77 New Member

    Just a few thoughts on p4p.

    I guess the part you might get addicted to is not the paying for sex in itself. But the easiness, noone likes to part with their had earned cash.

    Brothels is the same for us as a bar/club is for a relatively attractive women, except we have to pay for it. If all men could just show up at a bar and get sex just as easy for free, and maybe even a free drink too, then we would do that too an unhealthy extent. Many men would fuck them self to unemployment, bad health, not taking care of anything else. And the world would basically collapse I think.

    "Where is the plumber? He is at the bar f%#king"
    "Where is my dentist? he is at the club"
    "Who is gonna build the houses? They are all gone home with some hot girl. ;D
  16. TheSupportiveWife

    TheSupportiveWife New Member

    Oh and to the OP... as a woman, YOU my boy sound like an absolute ass.

    I have nothing against prostitutes, I used to BARTEND ( NOT strip, ONLY bartend ) at a strip club, Strippers turn tricks too, so I am in now way "prudish" and know exactly what those women's motives are, your tone and flippant attitude sure makes you sound like an idiot. Maybe prostitutes are the only women that will put up with you because all they care about is you getting your nut over so they can collect the cash.
  17. Zellomugi

    Zellomugi Guest

    What did you guys expect for the guy to do for christ sake, put a condom on his tongue?

  18. TheSupportiveWife

    TheSupportiveWife New Member

    For some reason, the thought of eating out a hooker is just disgusting... ugh. the thought of a guy Fucking one doesn't make me recoil in disgust, but going down on one ewwwwwwwwwww and he kisses his mom with that mouth !
  19. Meatloaf

    Meatloaf New Member

    supportive wife - I generally share your views.
    However - this forum is a place where people reveal their dirty habits and hopefully are trying to find their route away from such life. Just telling someone they sound like idiots and that they can only get prostitutes serves nothing but your venting.

    If you actually want to help the guy act different you need to offer something more constructive.
  20. Mart71

    Mart71 Guest

    One can use a dental dam for protection during cunnilingus or the anal version of it.

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