Was it a one-way trip to hell?

Discussion in 'Ages 25-29' started by niskanen91, Mar 13, 2016.

  1. niskanen91

    niskanen91 Active Member

    Still doing fine in terms of cigarettes (4 months and 19 days) and porn (5 days). Messed up with caffeine but it's not top priority now.

    @Naruto558

    Thank you for your support. What you're saying is absolutely right and it's very helpful. I think that giving up cigarettes and porn could set fantastic fundamentals for the rest of my life.
     
  2. niskanen91

    niskanen91 Active Member

    Last PMO - Dec 25
    Last cig - Aug 11
    Last caffeine - Jan 8*

    Planning to have last caffeine on Jan 10.
     
  3. niskanen91

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    Last PMO - Jan 8
    Last cig - Aug 11 '18
    Last caffeine - Jan 8

    2 weeks streak flushed down the toilet...
     
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  12. Naruto558

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    Hey, you need to stop fapping dude, your life is passing you by
     
  13. Naruto558

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    Stop focusing on Pmo all together and focus on creating a prouductive day for yourself. Start by going to the gym for an hour a day, then pick a book for an hour a day and then pick up a sport or another hobby
     
  14. Naruto558

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    After you come back from work do things that fill your day up. Never focus on how many days of no pmo you have done or anything porn related. Your problem isn’t pmo, your problem is that your day and life revolves around this addiction
     
  15. Naruto558

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    All femdom users are traumatized from abuse. Our amygdala’s are overactive and send us messages telling us we are worthless and not good enough . The amygdala is the part of the brain that recognizes a dangerous or fearful situation and finds a way to deal with that fear.
     
  16. Naruto558

    Naruto558 Member

    The problem is that our amygdala’s are overactive. The are stuck on a past tramua. Something happened in each of our lives that caused our amygdala’s to create fears around our masculinity. That’s the reason that we can’t stop fapping to femdom . When you get depressing thoughts or anxious thoughts they are coming from your amygdala telling you that there is a dangerous or fearful situation you must deal with. A person with femdom fetish may have a depressing thought telling them that they are worthless and deserve to be punished. Or a thought that tells them that they will never be man enough for a woman. All these thoughts come from a over active amygdala that is still stuck to n that past experience that ignited these fears. A normal amygdala would have let go of the experiences that caused these fears but ours are STUCk.
     
  17. Naruto558

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    In order for us to deal with these fears we have made the arousing and get stuck in an obsessive cycle . Our broken Brian sends us a message that tells us that we are not good enough and we deal with it by making it aurousing and fapping to the fear. Unfortunately that creates a viscous cycle of addiction.
     
  18. Naruto558

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    However this is just my assessment on the situation and what creates this fetish it may be wrong. Keep in mind though that I have successfully stopped watching all porn for 2 years and have kicked femdom out of my life
     
  19. niskanen91

    niskanen91 Active Member

    Last PMO - Feb 19 '19
    Last cig - Aug 11 '18

    Hey @Naruto558 , thank you for your motivating words. I just don't know how to answer to your feedback.

    I have majority of my life sorted out (sports, work etc.) but the thing is that I can not fap for like 10 days, not even think about this and then get horny on 11th and relapse.
     
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