I read yesterday that very few men, 60 and over, take ED meds. Most ED meds are prescribed to people in their 40's and early 50's. Wow, that surprised me! I also read that the efficacy of ED drugs in the over 60 crowds is not that good. The article was in Psychology Today. What's my own experience? I've never taken ED meds, though as I've mentioned, I'm not against them, not at all. When I found this place six years ago my pecker didn't really work. I would have to choke the chicken mercilessly, all the while trying to find that perfect P clip. Sometimes I couldn't cum at all and would have to take a break for a few hours. Often I would cum with a semi-flaccid dick. The O's were unremarkable. Sometimes I'd wonder if I even had had an O. Anyway, I bought into what people were saying on this website and it didn't take long before the penis was responding pretty well. After a few months I was having pretty good sex with good boners; I was 58. Everything wasn't perfect, because nothing ever is, but my ED was gone, my DE a thing of the past (mostly), and I didn't fear having sex. Getting past the fear was huge, but I just kept telling myself "what have you got to lose?" I made sex all about myself and I didn't care a wit whether the old girl got her rocks off, or not. I tried (still do) to stay present in the love-making and not drift off into fantasy. But, sometimes I did fantasize a little and it actually helped the boner. At almost 65 I still have sex with the old lady, though it has become less and less frequent. She's older than me and is just not that into it. Some days she surprises me, but mostly it's me bugging her about it. Getting older basically sucks! lol My equipment still operates well. I would say I have less capacity than I did at 58. I have definitely diminished physically. I'm not a fat slob anymore, and take care of myself better, but aging has its way of getting its hooks in you. It would be easy to despair, but I can't turn back the clock. With this in mind I try to do things every day that feel fun and keep my brain alive. I make it a point of complimenting my wife, telling her she looks great, even when she looks like a haggard witch. I hug her all the time. In fact, I don't let her pass by me with at the very least a hand hold. This kind of, possibly annoying, behavior (for her) keeps me engaged. I also like to walk around naked (for a few minutes each day), because the air on my body makes me feel more tuned into my own skin, my own presence. I try not to look into the future and think "I wonder if I'll still be able to have sex when older." I take it as it comes or cums. Have you ever been the gym and watch the muscle heads slapping each other hard on the chest. I guess it makes them feel kind of angry and helps with their lifting. It also makes a person feel present, too, I'm guessing. Well, I have my own version of this. So, when I need it, or need to feel like I'm actually a vital human living on this planet, I do my own version of slapping myself. I'm not the older dude who is diminishing, not the guy who feels a bit tired all the time, but a God ready to eat the sun.