The decision to give up MO is a tough one. You don't have to make a life long commitment right now. Why not just try it for a while first. When I started I had in the back of my mind that I would just stop MO for now... But after no MO for a year, I don't find myself wanting to O any less. Yes, O feels great, I'm not gonna argue with you on that. Think about it this way, your in a committed relationship. Why not do the things to make your relationship stronger, so you can have more sex, and O more, and have a better relationship, and have more sex, and O more, and have a better relationship.... See the upward climb?? Just take things one day at a time. And someday you might not want to MO anymore, and when you want a O, get your woman turned on and show her how you O! Trading addictions is also very common. Try to trade for a healthy one. I gave up a lot of sugar when I did this, and I took up working out for my addition. I started riding a lot. Trust me, you'll impress your wife when you can keep that elevated heart rate and go at it for 3 hours! We are here to change our behaviors. You can do this!