I suppose in a round about way I do a bit of mentoring. I do have contact with wide array of ages and I speak in similar terms as I do on here. It is important to forge male friendships, even if they are just of the "getting a coffee once in awhile" type. I have a couple of men that I meet from time to time and I share quite a lot with them. However, I have not opened up about my cheating to them, because I live in a small town and even though I believe they would hold their counsel, one never really knows. I also don't discuss any past/present porn use for similar reasons. I'm sure when I first got caught cheating my wife told a few of her friends, but now that it has all died down I hardly want the whispers to start back up again. So, some things I must be content to live with and only share on these pages. I'm afraid I caved in and PMO'd two days straight. I had been doing the old checking out pics and shit and then the predictable happened, which of course I allowed to happen. Having my kids move back in with us due to Covid has put a strain on sexual relations with the wife. She is reticent to bonk during times they might "hear" us. Oh, well, it happened. I have pressed the wife for more action but she is in mother mode. I'm putting this latest episode firmly behind me. If I can't have sex regularly then I'm going to have to learn forbearance. Even when I was three years clean I still was not able to channel my sexual energy into something more creative. This is something I see as critical to my future success.