For years I smoked weed every day. If I didn't get high I was one crabby dude. Somehow I just grew out of it. I didn't like the way it made me feel anymore. It's crazy to think that this kind of just happened. I also drank a lot of days. I kind of grew out of this too. I really hope that somehow I can forget about porn and just start to love my life without it. It's been the hardest addiction to break. Maybe I think about it too much. I sometimes relapse right after reading on this site. I think it's because i'm thinking about porn so much. Don't get me wrong this site is great and very helpful but it can also hurt. For a while I think my best approach might be to just let the thought come and let it pass because lately I haven't been doing very good. I want to be able to move on from this and stay gone. I will still use the site but I can't dwell on porn too much because when I start thinking about it for a while I know what I do. Good luck everyone and fight the good fight.