Thank you for your perspectives. It alway helps. It all does take its time. And that is good. And I like active recovery. I just noticed how liberating it is to date and not to worry about getting laid or not. How liberating it is to get to know a woman first before even thinking about sex with her. How liberating it is to look a woman in the eye without getting some porn scenario going through my head. It feels mature, it feels healthy. And if in the dating as by force of nature our bodies melt together and we end up kissing and moving towards making love then things will take care of themselves. And if I do not have that rock hard erection in this scenario, succumb to the fear of ED and she did not have the patience to deal with it, then she is not the right person for me to hang out with. And of course that would hurt. But if there is one thing I learned in this journey is that I can live with pain. I can live with what I used to consider intolerable pain quite gracefully. Feeling hurt is part of this earthly existence. And I now much rather look the pain in the eye, feel compassion for the part of myself that is hurt, nurture that part of me and go on living... I can look after myself. And you can too!