Yea, we could debate it all day and nobody would really be right or wrong. I was a virgin at 26 years old when I joined YBR. So one of the things I needed to tackle with my reboot was intimacy with "real women". The strip club/ massage parlor is a conduit for me. It keeps me in the game, so to speak. I need to feel the touch of a woman to stay motivated quite frankly. My main objective is avoiding stimulation on a computer screen. Is it ideal? No. Is it causing me any harm? I doubt it. As long as I don't overdo it, I think it's OK.