"It's not the destination, it's the journey" Hi everyone. New here, and claiming this little post as my own basecamp. You are all free to join and exchange words, thoughts and those precious supplies that will only help us get there. I'm a 35 year old male, and I am addicted to Porn. I have been tempted to write "was" instead of "am" but the journey will be long and difficult, so let's not cloud the issue here. In a few hours I will officialy start my 2nd day without PM(O). The O I still allow as I am married and don't plan to go monk mode or other modes that avoid sexual relations. And that's another problem too, as I have to reboot the whole process of "sex" and get attracted again, without thinking about another woman during the act. Yesterday being the start of day 1 during midday, my brain and myself have a lot of work ahead. From signals to to touch myself, even while not watching anything arousal at all ... it all starts there. R.E.W.I.R.I.N.G! It wouldn't be so hard I guess if PMO was the only issue here. But it's the first I have to tackle and hopefuly during the process I will be able to tackle other issues (health in general : diet, stamina), confidence, procastination, etc ... Let's get the counter up (I like the stats, dopamine much?), and take it one day at a time, treating it like every day is the first day. This will be my main objective for a while since I don't really have other objectives at the moment, but this will have to change too.