The image of the porn-user: hot or not? Question for women

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by NewTerritories, Jan 3, 2017.

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The porn-using man is...

  1. More attractive

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  2. Less attractive

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  3. Neither/both

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  1. NewTerritories

    NewTerritories virtual

    This one's for the ladies. Just two questions, and I'd advise posting your answers before reading the other responses. Because what I'm looking for is entirely personal opinion. So it'd be interesting to get these opinions as uninfluenced as possible.

    i. All else being equal, is a man who uses porn more, or less attractive to you, than a man who does not?

    ii. Why do you think that is? (Or why not?)


    Thanks for your participation.

    Guys: if you have a wife or girlfriend, or close female friend, who doesn't have an account here, and if it'd be appropriate to ask her these questions, I'd appreciate if you did and relayed her answers here...

    After we get a few responses, let's see if we can discuss the deeper meanings one might draw from them.
     
  2. spoofy

    spoofy Active Member

    I kinda asked mine a while back, she doesn't really care.
    What bothers her is seeing me fapping on porn, in her mind I'm cheating on her.
    She knows it's stupid & hypocritical, as she watches porn too, but I realize it's a biological thing that can't change.

    I've noticed the same behavior in many of my past gfs. (and ya, they all watched porn too)
     
  3. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    I'm just wondering why do woman like porn. The camera of porn movies usally focuss on the boobs and but of a girl and close ups on the girl.

    is there girl porn or something that focus more on the guy (camera close ups)

    or is it more 2 people having sex. its just something i am wondering about and what do they watch?.
     
  4. Deleted User

    Deleted User Guest

    I think women imagine themselves being thé girl on the screen. It focuses on the women body so their miror neurons can play a role here.

    As for what women think of m'en watching porn I think it really depends : what girl? What are her moral values? What does she think of porn? And what kind of porn? How often ? Does it impact their sex life? Does he lie/acts weird about it?

    An ex girlfriend of mine didn't care, another hated that I watched it (although not often; she didn't watch any), one suggested we watched together and blew me while I watched a few times, and one had an ex boyfriend who worked in the porn industry so you can imagine she didn't care me watching it lol.

    So yeah, that really depends.
     
  5. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    You might want to research "rape fantasy". A lot of woman have it. Its because they are atractive to pure male energy in that fantasy a male takes the lead and takes a huge risk. Thats why they fall in love for a man who takes the lead. this is why they like bad boys sometimes they take the lead and don't care about the woman.

    This is why woman like man who take risk the risk to asking her out the risk to speaking to her and flirting with her(taking risk of rejection) this is olso why flirting and beeing playfull causes you to get more girls the more you go for the rejection by saying certain things the more she is atractive to you only if she likes you the girls that don't like you reject you.

    all my girfriends told me about their sexual fantasies and it where rape fantasies. But raped by a guy they are in love with. They where horny in their fantasy and get raped by the "hot guy".

    Its olso because society today a woman who watch porn or has lots of sex as something dirty so when they get raped they don't feel dirty or guilt its something that is forced on them..

    Yep some woman are wierd sometimes
     
  6. spoofy

    spoofy Active Member

    Ya they all watched totally different porn than ours
    • Literotica
    • Hentai (romantic kind, and also violent rape kind)
    • Rape fantasies, but ones by super alpha billionaire hot males (sometimes wearing suits, lol)

    I was going to say hope it didn't burst any bubbles about females, but then I read your last post, bingo :p
     
  7. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    Jep rape fantasies is pretty common with woman this is why i hate feminist it just proves woman love a man who takes the lead
     
  8. Mik2

    Mik2 Aka NwaltRed

    There is a difference between domination and rape, so im not sure women really have rape fantasies so much as domination fantasies.

    In any case I wouldn't except a woman who wanted to role play such fantasies in a relationship, because it plays right into the feminist narrative. I.E it's all well and good for women to fantasize about rape (playing the victim), but a man certainly doesn't have the privilege of such fantasies if they are playing the fantasy role of the perpetrator.

    I don't except double standards, and most double standards seem to come from modern day feminazism.
     
  9. Imfree

    Imfree Active Member

    Well, this thread has certainly gotten depressing. I don't know why I keep coming to this site.

    Somebody on here once posted that a good way to prevent relapse might be to have a video of themselves PMOing. I doubt that anybody would find it attractive. You're a total zombie, hunched over, mesmerized, practically drooling. I get so desperate to stroke out another orgasm at the end that I must look like I'm having a seizure. In real sex the orgasm is entirely pleasurable, but with porn I can't stop masturbating even after orgasming 10 times (no ejaculation after the first couple). It gets to be quite painful and my heart beats so fast that I am genuinely afraid of heart attack (you would not want anybody to find you in such a condition).

    I have heard a number of women convincingly state that they aren't attracted to guys who watch porn (and not because of jealousy).
     
  10. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    Yeah its because it shows you don't have mental power if you can't quit porn.

    and woman fall more for a man with mental power you might be hot and cute but if you don't have mental power you will not get the girl.
     
    Last edited: Jan 5, 2017
  11. NewTerritories

    NewTerritories virtual

    https://moonpodrising.wordpress.com...-uses-porn-more-or-less-attractive/#comment-6

     
  12. hope2overcome

    hope2overcome No Love, No Sex

    The wide wide wide majority of girls do not watch porn. The ugly girls with repressed sexuality watch porn which explains spoofy's gf history. Why do they watch it? Repression of sexual identity, the same reason why we watch to, to some extent. But, let me re-iterate, the vast overwhelming majority do not watch porn. Even Gary posted a study of female porn audience and it showed like a 3% viewership across a large anonymous sample pool. This is also the same for rape fantasies. Most of your views come from media and the media has a knack for giving the spotlight to the extreme few which makes it seem like those extreme few are the majority.
     
  13. Mik2

    Mik2 Aka NwaltRed

    Sources? Links? Anything? You sound like Trump dishing those stats on violent DC crime. "Crime is up 50%, it's Yuge" (crime is actually down 50% :D)
     
  14. spoofy

    spoofy Active Member

    I like turtles.
     
  15. hope2overcome

    hope2overcome No Love, No Sex

    I want you to make note of the fact that you want sources yet you seem to have your mind set on believing women are as much of a porn watcher as men are. If it will do you any good, perhaps not, here is the source.

    https://sg.news.yahoo.com/french-women-tuning-porn-study-says-155044992.html
     
  16. hope2overcome

    hope2overcome No Love, No Sex

    Women might watch porn but maybe once in a while when curiosity sets in. But, not nearly as much as liberal media wants you to believe. For example, buzzfeed, cnn, huffington post all those media sources take in a lot of money from the porn industry, that is not a conspiracy, that is fact. So, naturally, they will not only prize the industry as normal but also the tenets it stands on. So, of course, they will skew stats in favor of their sponsors.

    However, let's get to the facts.

    Statistics shows,
    "Overall, women were still far less assiduous watchers than men, with only five percent of porn consumers watching frequently -- once a month or more -- against 34 percent of men."

    Source:https://sg.news.yahoo.com/french-women-tuning-porn-study-says-155044992.html


    Personally, from my personal experience, it is ugly women who enjoy watching porn because there is a desperation in them to want sexual contact. Just look at all the girls doing nofap videos on youtube, the vast majority are less than a 4.

    An interesting anecdote: I remember the first time I searched the keyword "sex". It was in an encyclopedia brittanica software way back in the days. It was with my sister and we were like 7-9 yrs old. I figured, women have as much as curiosity and instinct to sexual stimuli as men. Whenever I had the house to myself, the browser history would be so bad you would have to wash your eyes with soap. However, when my sis had the house to herself, I used to monitor her usage of porn through software tricks I knew of back then. And, loh and behold to my surprise, only once and only one website. I was always astonished at most girls and how they are able to turn off the porn switch so easily.

    I think it's because women have a higher sense of feeling than men. Touch a guy seductively on the arm, he may feel something but do the same for a girl and she will feel double the guy. Why? It is because women have more nerve cell endings in their body. And, that is why they are looking for love. To them, they feel it waaay more than men do. And, what exactly does porn addiction destroy? The internal feeling of love. There is no mystery at all, it's laid out in plain sight.

    Again, let me re-iterate ugly ass girls not only watch a lot of porn but also have reckless sex because of 2 reasons. 1.) They are desperate. 2.) They feel they are not worthy of being loved. And, number 2 also applies to a lot of males as well.
     
  17. Deleted User

    Deleted User Guest

    I've had hot exes who watched porn. It has more to do with mindset than physical appearance. I don't think we should over-generalize things about women, and that our thoughts about them say more about us than about them, so I'd be careful with assuming things here.
     
  18. Mik2

    Mik2 Aka NwaltRed

    Nope, wrong...wrong...wrong...let me tell you something about china:


    I wasn't suggesting that women watch as much porn as men, I was suggesting you are generalizing/speculating about the class of women that watch porn...fat ugly chicks if I remember correctly.
    Maybe add, "In my opinion", to the beggining of your post.
     
  19. spoofy

    spoofy Active Member

    OP asked for opinions from "real life" women.
    You totally missed the point of this entire thread did you?

    ^ This.
     
  20. hope2overcome

    hope2overcome No Love, No Sex

    To you hot is probably emily ratjakowsi which to me is a 6-7. Not hot. And, did your ex's watch porn as much as you? And, yes it does have ALOT to do with appearance. Most ugly women realize from a young age that no matter how much dressing up they do, they still wont be as hot as some who are born with it. It's an ugly truth. That is unfortunetly, the reality of how most women think and that is why they watch porn and act out sexually reckless. If women were to realize that they are perfect for the perfect guy and actually stamp that in their minds, then they wouldn't have that void they fill with porn and whatever else. These are cold hard facts, I am waking you up to. Accept it or reject, the truth is the truth.
     

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