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Aw cmon dude. It's alright though as you said you made progress and that's important.

Funny how this shit catches us by surprise.

 

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omg i woke up in caveman mode today too,
i almost jumped into the lava;
i was on the verge
i had great urges , my balls are full, my sperms would almost start talking to me to let them out for some fresh air,
but i had sexual urges, it wasnt about porn,
but porn then always want to show up as a solution when the impossiblity of having a girl, is 0 , especially for me who wont have sex unless its marriage,
so i understood, ihad only two directions, depression , or victory,
im happy i didnt jump
i will continue the fight,
i noticed that when i used my rage in something useful like painting and earlier in school activies i was hot and powerful " bit nervous" but very productive,
now i understand why old people still are very vigorous in their traditional jobs,
its because they are using their urges in something useful to redirect their sexual energy, till coming back to their wives and give them the best, for ultimate satisfaction
!!

 

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STP
Yeah man, I'm glad I've cut down. Also, I believe that masturbating once per week is within the healthy limits anyway. I just hope that I didn't lose all my gains. Btw, how did it go with the girl? 8)


sepultur60
What outlet do you have for ejaculating if you don't plan to have sex until marriage? If I was you, and I was going strong for 17+ days, but there was no way of "releasing", I would be forced to commit suicide ;D

 

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i appretiate your sincerity,
the only secret, is spirit energy,
its a happiness in the heart im gainning back more everyday,
before i used ot stay non stop without even thinking aobut my penis, but i was in my best spiritual days and proximity,
so i tottaly agree with you, if someone leaves the pleasure there must be something or else its madness,
what i aim is to achieve back; tottal freedom, porn was confusing, but for other things its no problem by the help of spirit power and help from god;
haha
when im in spiritual mod it feels like the balls slow their creation of sperms, as i clear my head from all trigers and pleasures; so all the sexual methabolism changes mod; and start all simply providing power without sex fire , its like stealing consciousness from the sexual mechanism, so all is left there is a machine producing energy and hardness to the who system

 

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JerseyJay. That's exactly right. Just learn from the relapse so as to prevent it from happening again in the same manner in a future situation. I think it's key that you have realized the changes that you have had in your PMO habits. That's great progress. Keep it up man.

I'm in the same boat as sepultur. As for an outlet for ejaculation.... I don't have one haha... Just gotta wait a few years until I'm married and then my wife shall be the outlet haha ;D

 

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On a side note, my balls hurt so much today and they are still a bit in pain. Anyone know why?

 

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Haha thanks for asking bro. She's my neighbor I'm supposed to help her with something but she was flirting last time, so if anything interesting happens I'll be sure to put it up here. She's going to come in a few hours.

 

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Wish I could tell you, but mine hurt a bit today too. It had me a little worried and I was planning on posting about it, but you beat me to it. If anyone knows why this is the case, would they care to elaborate? Thanks.

 

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Day 36 is coming to a close, and other than the mild testicular pain mentioned above, I feel great. Absolutely no urges to PMO and I woke up with morning wood - not particularly strong, but it was there. I've also started noticing 1-2 spontaneous erections throughout the day, which is fairly encouraging.

I've also been in contact with a girl and it seems like it's headed in the direction of a romantic encounter. We'll see how that goes... with any luck I'll have nothing to be embarrassed about this time!

 

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Just an update for today, day 3.

I went to the store today, felt no anxiety at all, talked with some people anxiety free. I can say I see some improvements. The only issue with anxiety that I have right now is when I talk to a attractive girl or about to meet new people.

Basically, most of my anxiety comes from the anticipation of the situation, but I'm working on that. I have some self esteem issues right now too, hoping no PMO can lend me a helping hand soon.

 

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Good to hear everyone is back and running. As for today, I had two urges during the day but I kinda just let them fade away. My balls as I said earlier hurt, it's a bit better now though. Other than that, just gotta keep pushing

 

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strugglingtorecover
Absolutely, PMO is the destrutor of man kind!! I never thought I'd be saying these words.. how things change huh?! Btw, I'd get your testicle pain checked out. A few years back, I got pain in the balls, and it lead to something much worse! I'm not trying to scare you, it's just that I get paranoid when I hear about pain in the balls. I'd get it checked out for sure. Recommend the same to you, wantmylifeback!

STP
Be careful with your neighbors. Wouldn't wanna poo where you eat . Regarding the anxiety with chicks, that's something all guys have, even the really good ones. Over time you learn to cope with it, but the most important thing to getting better is quitting PMO. Before rewiring, I couldn't even approach a girl. But after a week of rebooting, I felt like I could talk to anyone anywhere!

 

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lol It went really well actually man, I had a little anxiety at first but stayed cool, it eventually went down to 0, or maybe 5 percent. We had a lot of fun and laughed. Wasn't planning to fuck her or anything I'm just glad I wasn't nervous.

All in all It was cool, I'm thinking I'm winning my war against my social anxiety.
And that's great to hear bro I'm glad your doing good now, I'm determined to not relapse again,

I wish everyone well, lets see what tomorrow brings.

 

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WTF guys, did you ever were in puberty? http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=blue+balls Brace yourselves, you're going to live with it (at least, for a while) if you are to stop fapping.

Your mileage may vary, but I tend to disagree. Once a week seem a bit of excess from my perspective, unless you're in ages of 14-16, maybe up to 18 if you're really hypersexual.

If you will something together, there may be good opportunities to make safe touches orr hug her in appreciation of help (works in reverse as well).

No, not all the guys. I knew a couple who hasn't.

 

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I again had some really vivid dreams with P. It was especially a struggle to not just get out of bed and go PMO when I woke up but luckily I had some entertaining texts in the morning that distracted me as soon as I woke up and I didn't even realize so that helped me. Today shouldn't be that difficult day, at least I hope not. I should be able to find stuff to keep me busy.

 

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How are ya'll coming along?

 

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Perhaps the fear of me finding you will encourage you to not PMO lol

I am doing ok, though I find that even with no morning wood, I am ridiculously horny in the morning and it has been difficult. Aside from taking a cold shower which sometimes I simply can't, I don't know what to do

 

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Day 4 ---- Yesterday went well with the girl, very low anxiety. Cracking jokes laughing and shit. Today, I was in a situation where I would have anxiety for no reason, but now I would say it went down to MAYBE 15 or 20 percent.

I should be amazed at what's happening but it feels so natural now. I hope everyone is having success as well.

Felt a little horny after I saw the word "sex" somewhere but that's it. No urges now.

 

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Still going strong on Day 10, dick looks shrivelled up and useless no clue why.

 

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It will likely be that way until roughly 2 weeks or more. Seems to ring true for me at least