Taking back my d̶i̶c̶k̶ - as it turns out, my entire life.

Discussion in 'Ages 20-24' started by hogus, Oct 22, 2012.

  1. Daimon

    Daimon Member

    AWESOME, bro!
     
  2. Universal

    Universal Guest

    Nice man!
     
  3. hogus

    hogus Well-Known Member

    I am and I do watch Fresh Meat but I'm not sure where I made a reference ::)
     
  4. SgtJim

    SgtJim Member

    haha I'm sure it was somewhere early on. Maybe I imagined it ;D
     
  5. hogus

    hogus Well-Known Member

    Does seem like something I would do tbh.

    Day 291: Had what was mounting up to a sex dream, but the dream just blurred when it was sexy time. Definite lack of proper wiring, plus I was sleeping really lightly and woke up. Rock solid though.

    I haven't had time to go out and hit the clubs in ages because of work. Not sure how I'm going to meet any girls when I only meet about one new one a month and they always end up being in LTRs...
     
  6. gameover

    gameover Age: 26

    You not interested in a relationship?
     
  7. hogus

    hogus Well-Known Member

    My life situation doesn't lend itself to meeting girls outside of clubs. I would literally talk to less than 1 new girl per month if it wasn't for the clubs.
     
  8. Cheese

    Cheese New Member

    Hah I'm in exactly the same situation now man. I've never been to a club, but I just very recently started checking out the bar scene. Based on what I've seen (very limited experience), it's pretty overrated and filled with chicks in cliques, not necessarily single per se.

    Have you thought about trying to hook up through mutual friends, or through people you know etc.?
     
  9. hogus

    hogus Well-Known Member

    That was my first thought and I have tried but it doesn't look like it's gonna go anywhere.

    So I'm left with the cold approach which is a completely separate challenge on its own ::)
     
  10. Cheese

    Cheese New Member

    True man.. Good luck, but I know you can do it though!
     
  11. hogus

    hogus Well-Known Member

    Been getting massive mood swings and episodes of depression lately.

    Not sure if it's reboot related.
     
  12. Daimon

    Daimon Member

    Think it might be school or work related?
     
  13. hogus

    hogus Well-Known Member

    Very likely, I also think that the reboot is mixed in as well. Not as in the physiological changes but just same old shit, different day, no girls etc.

    Work has picked up a LOT recently so that might have been the trigger point.
     
  14. Daimon

    Daimon Member

    I see....are you happy with your job?
     
  15. hogus

    hogus Well-Known Member

    Look at that, 200 days. Still no girls in sight though... not that I was even expecting them to just fall into my lap.

    My job's over (it was only temp) so that's something anyway.

    Still getting the mood swings though, but not as much. I think they are reboot related but not because of the reboot, just frustration.

    Oh also started to get spontaneous erections. When I'm watching TV, or on the bus etc. But you know, still no girls..
     
  16. Universal

    Universal Guest

    Hey man, happy new year and big congrats on 200 days! Not far from 1 year no P either

    Spontaneous erections is a pretty major milestone isn't it? Are you actively seeking a relationship, Fbuddy etc or 'going with the flow' until you meet someone?
     
  17. hogus

    hogus Well-Known Member

    Yeah maybe. I'm looking for a relationship but not meeting any girls.

    Been in a pretty deep depression lately and it's not because of a porn induced fucked up dopamine system, but just me not being happy with basically anything. Will keep you guys updated.
     
  18. hogus

    hogus Well-Known Member

    3am and another fucking sleepless night. Just referred myself onto NHS psychotherapy and booked a GP appointment.

    I guess for some people porn addiction just happened but not me... can't believe it's taken me this long to realize it.
     
  19. Universal

    Universal Guest

    Do you have any hobbies?

    Hope the appointment works out well bud, if you need any extra talking feel free to flick me a PM. I'm not sure I completely understand your last line, could you elaborate?
     
  20. nomorefapalexander

    nomorefapalexander New Member

    Yo, man. Congratulations with the progress. I am now starting cold approach as well. Even though we may not get a meaningful relationship through cold approach, it may be a definitely good way of rewiring.

    I also feel depressed for no reason a lot. Sometimes this can be elevated by forcing yourself to socialize and things that are out of your comfort zone I guess.

    Stay strong.
     

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