Struggling for time (200+ days of no PMO)

Discussion in 'Ages 20-24' started by VeniVidiVici, Dec 4, 2012.

  1. Apeman

    Apeman It means you're a baboon... And I'm not

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    A half a year! That's awesome! To what would you credit your success thus far?
     
  2. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    Just mainly keeping a focus on what you wanna achieve. And when you get cravings, don't fight them, but just embrace them and live with them, try to understand it, that will make it easier to get over the cravings, and from there it's just the brain itself that needs to acclimatize to the new behavior, but that is pretty effortless. Apart from that try to eat health, get enough sleep, and try to get some alone time every now and then, whether its reading, meditation, yoga,a workout, or even just go to the movies by yourself. Try to get away from the tv, smartphone, or computer every once in a while. This helped me to be investigate myself better.
     
  3. Apeman

    Apeman It means you're a baboon... And I'm not

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    Wow, thanks! It's interesting, because the combination of eating well, sleeping well, facing and accepting cravings, and keeping an eye on your goals is pretty much what the last year of trying Nofap has taught me as well!
     
  4. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

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    Yeah, for me stuff like K9 filters just hide the problem and don't face it. I feel that it's better to just do it by yourself, since that will speed up the process.

    Btw, if anyone has questions of any sort, just shout! :)
     
  5. sesshomaruinuyasha

    sesshomaruinuyasha Destroy the drug and get your life back !

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    Yeah i have one. Does erect size decrease in the process ? flaccid i grew like everyone else but i swear to god i was bigger last year erect. maybe we artificially lenghtened our dicks by so much masturbation and now we're gettring back to normal ?
     
  6. gameover

    gameover Age: 26

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    well done Veni on 6 months no porn.
     
  7. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

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    Goku, I don't think so to be honest. Then again I never really checked too much, plus finished MOing flaccid for far too many times.

    Cheers gameover!

    Day 184

    Woke up with wood again today, got out of bed pretty early as well. Went to uni, got quite some work down, plus arranged a date for later on today. After that some beer and food with friend and prob going out after. Today is a good day. So far at least. :p
     
  8. sesshomaruinuyasha

    sesshomaruinuyasha Destroy the drug and get your life back !

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    lol then what the hell is wrong with mine ?
     
  9. fugu

    fugu "You know, feelin' good, livin' betta." :) Staff Member

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    Nearing that big 200....nice job on 6 months man! Things have really changed for me past day 150, are you feeling the same thing?
     
  10. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    Goku, might be due to a flatline or something. fugu, I think so, I just feel like it sucks I still haven't had normal sex though without any problems.

    Day 185

    So went on that date, which was ok, but nothing special, nothing happened. Then had beer and pizza with friends, watched the football game, and went out afterwards. Ran into the girl from last Friday, we hit it off again, and she spend the night at my place. Again ED, might have been able to do PIV after stimulation, but I couldn't bother, so we just had other fun. Barely slept because of it all, so right now I feel exhausted and in a couple of hours time a girl will be over from the UK for the weekend, whom I have a history with as well. So not sure what that will bring.
     
  11. gameover

    gameover Age: 26

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    You have a great attitude Veni, To keep going pushing ahead with girls after so many ED incidents is very courageous. Do you enjoy the time your spending with these girls when they stay the night?
     
  12. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

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    Yup, otherwise I wouldn't bring them home. And it really is fun, and in general they're pretty chilled out about it.
     
  13. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

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    Day 186

    Was exhausted all day since I barely slept the night before. I picked up my UK friends, after which we had dinner, did some drinking, and went out. Back home we passed out, but early in the morning one of the girls started to fool around with me. Got hard on and off, just at the wrong time for PIV though. Thereafter a little big too much stimulation again led to PE...(this is really starting to suck..) A little bit later we fooled around again, but someone came into the room, so we couldn't really progress with it. I do however feel that my erection is starting to be more responsive, so I guess I'll just try to see that as progress.
     
  14. gameover

    gameover Age: 26

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    Hey you seem to get girls fairly easily. Do you just hang out with them and let it happen naturally or are you putting effort into actually hitting on them etc?
     
  15. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

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    The last one I already knew and this was bound to happen. The girl from Wed, I met two weeks before through a friend, and just ran into her in a club. In general most of my hook ups are with friends of friends I have to say. Otherwise I always just try to enjoy myself in clubs and I guess that that just rubs off on people. Same yesterday, was out with the two girls who were over, and still someone came up to me, since someone was into me apparently. Didnt go through with that, since I was with the friends, but it was a nice ego-boost.

    So yeah in general it's more natural, I never make a really cold approach or something.
     
  16. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

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    Day 186

    Have been tired all day yesterday, went to a gig and afterwards I was too tired to go out. The girls staying over at my place did go however. When the one from the night before come back we fooled around, first time didn't really work again, second time I think we had sex for minute and a half or so before I came. Guess that's some progress again.
     
  17. Goon

    Goon Guest

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    Wow, 186 days is very impressive! :)
     
  18. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

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    Cheers Goon

    Day 187

    This was the final full day of those girls at my place. I was kinda done with it all to be honest. I mean they're fun and all, but after a couple of days of people around you day and night you really figure out if you like someone. The led to the situation that the girl wanted to go again at night, and I didn't really feel like it, so barely tried, didn't get aroused and nothing happened. More and more I'm just hoping for a nice girl, just to properly date someone again, someone who you can do more with than just have sex. On that note, in such a mood of melancholia I messaged my ex from overseas and set up a Skype date, I keep torturing myself basically.. :p
     
  19. Barneybarn

    Barneybarn Reboot and rewire!

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    Hey Veni,
    first off congrats on the 180+ days, that is huge!
    Why do you still torture yourself with your ex? How is everything else going?
    Reboot and rewire,
    Barn
     
  20. VeniVidiVici

    VeniVidiVici New Member

    Re: Struggling for time (150+ days of no PMO)

    Thanks Barneybarn, about the ex, we still enjoy talking to each other, it is just the distance keeping us apart.

    Day 188-191

    Not too much report about the last couple of days, have fallen ill, so that sucks. Spending a lot of time in bed gives me urges every now and then to MO, but so far I haven't.
     

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