Hey, I'm new to the community although I did lurk around a little bit. I'll try to explain my story as short as possible. Started masturbating around the age of 12, almost from the start with porn. First occasionally, but from that point onwards pretty much daily. I lost my virginity at the age of 18, although it didn't work at first, which I blamed on drinking too much alcohol. It did work out in the morning though. Ever since I have had my ups and downs with ED, but it mainly occurs when I'm getting of with girls I actually care about and want to be with. Therefore I always blamed my ED on pure anxiety, since I wanted to please the girl I was with and thus perform well. Three months ago, I am 22 now, I met this girl, but although we kissed and fooled around a little, we never went further for a couple of reasons that are not important for the matter. When we went for it for the first time we both drank a lot, and in the end it didn't work out. I really wanted to have sex with her, and because of my history I started to do some research and found the Porn addiction community. So I wanted to give it a go, this was just over 3 weeks ago. Ever since I have stayed of porn and I encountered strong morning erections during the first couple of days. Boosted by this confidence we tried again, and I got a satisfactory erection, however I did ejaculate prematurely. This was a couple of days into the reboot. Since then we didn't try and during that period I MOed twice, without porn. A couple of days back (so 3 weeks in) we had an amazing day and one thing let to the other. It didnt work though, because I felt dead down there. Which made me feel terrible, since I really want to pleasure her. After we stopped trying that night, I told her all about my history of ED and me trying to reboot, which felt like a huge relief. The next day out of curiosity I MO'ed, but I barely got an erection, so this didn't give me any relief. In general I get that Oing might set you back in your process of obtaining results, I have a problem with that although, since the girl I'm with will leave for another country in 2.5 weeks time. During that time I would love to have at least one satisfactory night with her. After that period I will try to fully commit not to P, M, or O. The problem I face however is how can I try to at least have one proper night with her during the next 2 weeks and a bit.. I am sure that after that rebooting won't be easy either, but certainly not too hard, because of all the positive reports I've read. Can anyone give me some advice on this. (I am a complete novice when it comes to things like rewiring or kegel exercises, so even some info on that would be extremely useful). Thanks a bunch and I will try to keep a journal going here at least every couple of days, but preferably daily.