You cant get an erection with a girl. I realize this sucks but is there a positive to this situation? I bet there is! Here me out! For me, I have ascertained that the words of Epicurus are true! If thou wilt make a man happy, add not unto his riches but take away from his desires. Epicurus You desire an erection with a real girl! That desire is good! It is healthy but porn has taught you that the desired outcome of life is to bang many women and to feel like a stud in such fashion. I say unto thee, that it is far better to find one lady and cultivate a relationship with her. A deep abiding relationship. Use your sexuality to tease her. Take things slowly to whet her appetite. A lot of guys on this forum go from girl to girl! Thats a big mistake in my opinion and does not lead to lasting happiness. Porn has done far worse things to us than make our dicks numb. It has stolen our ability love and appreciate one woman we love! That is what we need to get back more so than even the erection!