Thanks for the reality check - yes, at the end of the day she is only another person. But her awesomeness is not only physical! When I met her I thought she was attractive, but by the end of the date I felt much more so - so I will give myself a little bit of extra credit. And thank you for the little confidence boost, I do have a tendency to undermine myself a little bit, like most of us do. But I have a second date, and I will free my head some more.