sex during reboot

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by Kingofqueens89, Dec 30, 2013.

  1. Kingofqueens89

    Kingofqueens89 New Member

    I know many people have responded to this topic but I wanted to know if you can fully recover from pied while continuing to have sex.i have been off porn for 5 months and my longest streak was 45 days..my girl wont stay with me if I dont have sex with her..should I keep trying to force erection through Manuel stimulation I feel like I have no other choice..or I will never heall if I keep oing with partner?
     
  2. Superunknown

    Superunknown Member

    I tried rebooting while continuing to have sex for over a year. It didnt work.

    Once i abstained from orgasm for three months I saw the most progress. I have no way of knowing if it was the combined time between the two methods, or merely the lack of O in the second case which gave me the progress though I suspect it was the lack of O.
     
  3. waytogo

    waytogo New Member

    I'm experiencing the same exact thing as you are. I have totally cut out PMO and also MO this has really helped me alot (no touching, no testing). I know I probably should abstain from having sex but at the same time, I cannot let my fiance suffer for weeks to months due to my past personal selfishness, so what I do is save my sexual energy for her -only her. The good thing is that I came clean with her since day 1, even before I found YBR! Truthfully , she is very supportive during this whole process of rebooting. Sex with a real understanding women really does speed up the process, i'm not talking about one or two encounters , but a woman that you can have everyday relations with such as kissing, touching, hugging, ect. When we do have sex, I am more focused on her reaching climax and most of the time I will usually hold back on the Os , this really helps a lot. Of course I refrain from sex when she is on her cycle , and whenever she is in her ovulation period. This allows me at least 14 -16 days out of the month where I can concentrate on healing myself. Keep in mind , I'm not giving you any instructions as to how to live your sexual life, but I am sharing my experience. This works for me and my fiance.
     
  4. Psalm 51:2

    Psalm 51:2 Wash away all my iniquity, cleanse me from my sin.

    Not only did it not work for me but it caused me immense distress to see that I still couldn't perform.
     
  5. Kingofqueens89

    Kingofqueens89 New Member

    Thanks for the info guys..i guess theres no way around it..to fully heal and get the best results i have to abstain from orgasm with partner.
     
  6. Crown

    Crown New Member

    Hold on now, we know from the science that the same, real girl is wired differently than P, so it shouldn't be affecting your progress. If people are going to say abstain from all sex they might well say abstain from relationships, in many cases. Tell your partner and hope that she's supportive, if not, then that's something to think about that person.

    The problems I've run into with sex is it's just hard to get it up and be stimulated from the sex. It may lower your psyche that you can't get off or keep it up, but that's a trick of the mind you have to overcome. The more you orgasm from a real girl the more you should be wiring your brain in the other direction of P.

    So I'd like to ask the guys, why didn't it work for you? Were you relapsing? If so, what was your mood like, negative? If you're just not seeing progress, what was your mood like, negative? I suspect there's something else lurking here. If a real girl is working against us, then men better stay away from all girls no matter what. It doesn't add up.
     
  7. Kingofqueens89

    Kingofqueens89 New Member

    After the three months of complete abstinence did you completely heal?
     
  8. Kingofqueens89

    Kingofqueens89 New Member

    so did you completely abstain and recover and if so how long did it take?
     
  9. Kingofqueens89

    Kingofqueens89 New Member

    had complete ed with girls no reaction as i abstained from porn and masturbation i started to get some progesss mild erections while kissing but it would subside very quickly because it is not as exciting as porn..every time i force an erection i would orgasm as i get fully hard or lose erection before penetration..its not anxiety because im completely relaxed..some people without severe ed can recover with partner but guys like me that wired there brains to porn and were virgins in there early 20's will not fully recover if they do not completly abstain from PMO.this is what i have discoverd so far in this 6month journey.







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  10. Crown

    Crown New Member

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  11. Psalm 51:2

    Psalm 51:2 Wash away all my iniquity, cleanse me from my sin.

    I am in the heart of the process right now. I hope it will be solved soon but I just lost my girlfriend so I don't know when I'll be able to try again.
     
  12. Kingofqueens89

    Kingofqueens89 New Member

    good luck
     

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