Screw#Femdom [OPEN GROUP]

You have to stop fantasy and edging if you want to recover 100 percent,Edging and fantasy always lead right to relapse.

 

@breaking_free yes go to your specific age group, so it says you are 29, so 25-29 and post your personal journey there. Although typing here isn't really a big deal. Naruto is right you can't edge. Looking at porn and rubbing your dick is still indulging in the porn. if you keep doing that, you'll eventually do it where you just orgasm out of your control. Also your brain still sees that as a sexual experience even though it didn't orgasm.

However with all that said, your progress is already starting. You were doing it every day to orgasm multiple times, now you did it without orasming 3 days later. Keep going.

 

purchase the product i put a link to yesterday. If it seems shady to you just get yourself a prepaid credit card and use that. Trust me if you listen to this theirs a 99 percent chance you will heal. i know this from experience bro. if i didn't relapse i would be cured from just listening to that recording. I know it may sound far fetched but just give it a chance.

 

the answer lies in changing your subconscious otherwise you will remain were you are forever. It is your choice what you wanna do but i would recommend buying this product

 

It did work. i got my regular libido back right away. however my fetish was still around and tricked me into believing it will never go away. i then relapsed and my progress with my regular libido came to a stop. so what im saying is if you decide to use it it will only work if you dont relapse to femdom.

 

Hypnosis is just about restructuring your unconscious mind and interpreting it properly.
The right frontal lobe deals with subconscious, abstract ideas and your left frontal lobe articulates those and brings order to them.
When you have a fantasy of femdom and you use your mind to change the fantasy, to reject it etc, you are reframing how your mind understands the world. You are taking those abstract ideas and reframing how your left brain looks at them. Instead of your left brain thinking they are the real world, your left brain realizes them for what they are, just fantasy. When you masturbate and engage those fantasies, you are manifesting them and giving them structure in your mind, because it thinks thats how the world will be so its getting ready essentially. When you reject the fantasies, your brain incorporates them into its structure but rather as things to be avoided in the world, things that aren't real. Your brain understands what heroine is, but it doesn't seek heroine in the world. It just has heroine in its category of things to be avoided. Do the same thing with femdom. Teach it to avoid that stimulus.
Typically we frame and restructure out subconscious during our sleep, but you can do it during daydreaming, hypnosis, meditation or conscentrated thought. Since I started restructuring my fantasies, i have noticed the emergence of normal sexual dreams. Literally just fun interaction with women, which result in sex. This is what sex is supposed to be, this is my mind trying to incorporate that concept into its articulated structures so that it can manifest them into reality. When you subject your mind to nasty porn, your brain tries to manifest those concepts into reality, which don't work because they are not accurate representations of reality. Or rather they are, because your brain can find them in porn, but they are bad aspects of reality. Like drugs, you can find them, but they bring you down. Same thing with femdom, its real, its in the world, but its a detriment. This is why it's important to only expose yourself to real women or pictures at the most. And the pictures should not be some type of propaganda, like femdom or overly submissive women. Just real women in their natural form. Keep rewiring those fantasies, keep battling them every time they come and keep training your mind that it is real women who are where happiness is, not pixelated women.

 

I would be down for this

 

Had 8-8.5 months of sobriety (no fap + no porn), then had about a week of relapsing mainly involving messaging the so-called "goddesses", a few faps, including one to porn. Trying to get back on the wagon. At 8 days sobriety

 

GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!! My problem was never as serious as this, but I enjoyed the genre... How long before your desires and arrousals began to normalize?

 

I stopped watching that stuff for the final time roughly 3 months ago. I can genuinely say it just doesn't appeal to me anymore and I actually get very aroused at the idea of being the dominant one now. I can't tell you for certain when they will go away because me quitting has been a continual process, where i relapsed a few times over the past 3 years. But it definitely won't take that long. I think realizing this fact helped me as well:

Guys into femdom are into it because deep down they have some insecurity about their manhood. I thought no way, that can't be me. Because Ive always been above average intelligence and confident in the real world. But reflecting on my life, I realized i grew up in a household where my dad wouldn't follow through on what he said, and when you learn not to trust men like that, it fucks with your psychology. My mom constantly complained about my dad not coming through and sort of emasculated him with her words. I didn't realize any of this till the last few years. Once you become aware that femdom is really a mental illness and then start seeking normal relations with women, it goes away completely. So the reason I couldn't really quit before was because there was part of that thought "hey maybe I'm just supposed to be into femdom". But no that's not the case at all. Just leave it in your rearview and move on.

 

And you're able to have great normal sex now? That's all I want with my girl. I want to be the kind of man she respects for being strong.

 

I haven't had the opportunity for sex in a while, I'm away for school with not much of a social life, but I'm certain yes when I get the opportunity I will very much be able to have regular sex. The shit I was into just seems really stupid now. I don't think femdom porn would fuck with so many guys if they only indulged every now and then. The problem is we use it like a drug and keep taking hits, masturbating when we aren't even really horny. Femdom is much more intense than regular sex.

If you are worried that because I haven't had sex yet, I assure you not to worry. Literally i've been so horny for regular sex on no fap i almost felt compelled to act out as if I was banging a chick from behind. That's a weird revelation but I feel it might benefit you. literally just take your dick out of the virtual femdom land, and it'll adapt to where you bring it. Just think logically, you've been exposing your brain to femdom for so long, or maybe it got exposed to male emasculation via your mother's behaviour or your sister's behaviour etc and it adapted. Your brain is always adapting and readjusting. i am making small efforts to get myself back involved in the dating game, I really fell off though because of a pot addiction so I have a lot of recovery to do. But for your situation just to do no fap and you'll start loving life again.

 

Do you get random erections or solid morning wood?

 

yes cconsistently getting morning wood now after not getting it during years of fapping. Also since being off of that weird shit I've discovered that i am actually naturally very dominant. I would have never believed this, I was always convinced i was just meant to be into femdom. Complete and utter nonsense. I studied the life sciences in undergrad, and minored in neuroscience and psychology. Plus i have been arduously researching this shit for years since It's so relevant to me. I am certain that so many men are into femdom these days because we live in a feminized society where the father's shown on tv are completely incompetent (homer simpson, peter griffin) or just feminine and pussy whipped (phil dumphy), combined with a lack of father figures (single motherhood is skyrocketing), plus feminism which pushes female superiority. Without the proper guidance from strong male authority figures, men are adapting and submitting to women. A lot of men genuinely don't realize that men are the dominant sex. They think "oh some men are dominant and some women are dominant". If you are into femdom, you essentially don't believe deep down that you can rise up and conquer women. if you think me saying that is sexist then you are brainwashed. I am not saying men are better than women, or women are to blame for anything. Those guys who blame everything on women are just pissed of at life. I am going to do a whole post explaining the psychology of all this, but just believe me when I say men are meant to lead and women are meant to follow. Quit this shit, do things to improve your self worth- work out eat healthy pursue goals etc, and you will rediscover your natural dominance.

 

One more point, a man should never submit to his woman this will make her lose respect for you. It's a slow process, so guys who say "oh me and my wife role play from time to time and everything is okay" don't realize what's happening. it exactly happened to me. With my first love, I was on top of the world when we started dating. I was dating arguably one of the hottest girls in the grade below me before her, hooking up consistently every weekend at hall parties and my first love was obsessed with me. But my porn addiction got worse and worse because I thought I was just screwed up and into femdom. So i start having my girlfriend do femdom fantasies with me. She never really liked it deep down I could tell, she was just doing it for me because she was really into me. Long story short, 5 years later and she has much much less respect for me now. She literally was obsessed with me when I was acting like king shit. She can't see the new changes i've made and if she ever came back she would be shocked. This is why throughout history if men wanted to play out these fantasies, they went to a mistress in private. Your girl is not meant to be your mommy remember that, if you want mommy's discipline, go see a mistress. But until you are a leader in your life and have control over your sex life, absolutely avoid all femdom.

 

fucking finally dude. wandering soul it took you long enough but im glad you understand to never see femdom as a part of you

 

haha thanks man. took awhile. the masculine conscientiousness is reawakening in society. Watch out

 

Any kind of PIED still? Have you tried with a girl?

 

We'll see, I hooked up with an old fling from high school the other day. 5 years ago when that fling first occurred, I gave her up before fucking because my ex was hitting me up and i was still whipped. The ex who was my first and only love so far in life. The ex wants to chill with me now that i am in town for christmas break. So basically fate has given me another chance to bang the first girl that I gave up and pick her over the ex. I have to step and be a man and go for it this time. Wish me luck boys

 

Howd it go?