Rhone reborn

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by Rhone, Sep 12, 2012.

  1. Rhone

    Rhone New Member

    So lots of history to capture here.
    This began for me in June when my wife found an old DVD days before I was leaving for a work trip overseas- 20 year history of using porn came out and the fact I had been lying to her all this time.

    major turning point on my use was 98 when for the first time I had internet access, privacy and lots of time alone- my wife was away at school.

    I will fill in more history, but I want to focus on the positive.
    So no porn since early June, no masturbation since then as well. But my wife joined me for much of my overseas stay, and I had planed to be porn free for that trip- technical reasons- work laptop- so no access that way as being with my wife. And of course the finding just prior to the trip gave me lots of incentive.

    I am starting my counter on August 28th- as that was the day my wife returned home and I was alone. I have been porn and masturbation free since then, wife and I are working through many issues, but I am so fortunate that during periods of good connection since that day 9 we are having intimate relations.

    She has pointed out stronger/ harder/ fuller erections, and I am experiencing more powerful O's (so even though my counter is at day 15, it has been closer to 3 months).

    so this is the start of my story..
  2. Dangerous Dave

    Dangerous Dave I don't need a weapon; I am a weapon.

    Welcome. You're already off to a great start. Best to you.
  3. Prinster

    Prinster New Member

    Welcome buddy
    You are well on your way to a more interesting fulfilling life. Stay strong and reap the rewards that your wife has already noticed.

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