So lots of history to capture here. This began for me in June when my wife found an old DVD days before I was leaving for a work trip overseas- 20 year history of using porn came out and the fact I had been lying to her all this time. major turning point on my use was 98 when for the first time I had internet access, privacy and lots of time alone- my wife was away at school. I will fill in more history, but I want to focus on the positive. So no porn since early June, no masturbation since then as well. But my wife joined me for much of my overseas stay, and I had planed to be porn free for that trip- technical reasons- work laptop- so no access that way as being with my wife. And of course the finding just prior to the trip gave me lots of incentive. I am starting my counter on August 28th- as that was the day my wife returned home and I was alone. I have been porn and masturbation free since then, wife and I are working through many issues, but I am so fortunate that during periods of good connection since that day 9 we are having intimate relations. She has pointed out stronger/ harder/ fuller erections, and I am experiencing more powerful O's (so even though my counter is at day 15, it has been closer to 3 months). so this is the start of my story..