Return to basics just turned 40......

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by chopper, Oct 15, 2019.

  1. chopper

    chopper IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING!!

    Hi everyone. I've been over on another forum that seems to have died a death. It was very active a few months ago and I found it very helpful. So now I'm here and I hope I can feel the same positivity that I felt over there. Basically I'm a mess. I just turned 40 and I've come to the conclusion that I was using pmo to overcome anxiety issues. I suffer from PIED which is really frustrating as I am quite good with the ladies and I can't bring myself to even bother any more. Who wants someone that can't get it up right? Well I know there are some great girls with patience out there but it's very tough to even think of having a relationship with this problem lurking. I'm currently on 6 days no pmo. I've tried many times in the past and I could get to 2 weeks. I think turning 40 has given me a bit more of a kick and I'm determined to get this sorted. Any kind words or help would be greatly appreciated. It's a lonely place when you feel you're the only one with this issue. That makes it even worse. Wanting to share your life with someone and knowing you can't right now. I'm exercising and eating right and started meditating recently. I really feel like I can kick this thing but I'm terrified it will take so long. During my first attempt a couple of months ago I got to a week and a half but then flopped. Alcohol is definitely a problem for me especially the day after. Luckily I'm not really a big drinker anymore.
    During the reboot I got rock solid mw and also felt tingles and good sensations from just being in the company of women. Although I always mo'd from a young age it was usually only nudity and magazines up until i was late teens when i would occasionally get a porn video but i didn't start looking at porn on the internet until around 21 years old. I'm hoping that I have a fast reboot. I'm off the pmo for good anyway but I'm hoping I can function like a normal man soon. Thanks for reading . Your support will be most welcome.
     
  2. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    Welcome aboard! Read as,many journals as u can if you can. There is much information there and will answer many of your questions. No one judges you here, again welcome aboard!
     
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  3. chopper

    chopper IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING!!

    Thanks Bobo much appreciated thanks!
     
  4. Outsider.

    Outsider. Turning Simple Disciplines Into Massive Success

    Hi @chopper , you choose the right place and no, you’re not alone or the only one who has this problem. You’ll find a lot of support and advice here, so, welcome!
     
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  5. chopper

    chopper IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING!!

    Thank you Outsider. Your support is much appreciated. My next goal is 14 days. I'm taking it week to week. My overall goal is not 90 days . It's life with no pmo.
     
  6. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    Yes sir-- the overall goal a life without pmo. But like a journey step at a time and never losing faith it will happen because it will.
     
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  7. chopper

    chopper IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING!!

    So that week was much different to any previous attempts. I had mw on day one then shrunk for the next few days. No real urges no great feelings nothing. I still feel that way. I have to say I'm happy with that. It's good to get a break every now and again. I feel like maybe i got some good karma back or something. With pmo my erections were 100% and I'd get them to nudes and didn't need anything extreme. In the past I've watched hardcore stuff but the last year i haven't really needed it. Youtube videos have sometimes been enough. Could that be a factor? Am ai possibly flatlining already? Could it be a good sign? Could it be a quick reboot? I really hope so but again I'm not interested in pmo ever again. As soon as I'm in working order again I'm going to go after real women only. Anyone have any input ?
     
  8. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    You seem to be very concerned that it's a quick reboot? Just saying---no judgement here----
     
  9. chopper

    chopper IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING!!

    Yep. I'm sick of being lonely so I would like to get back into dating and i would like to have a relationship. I can't imagine starting a relationship if I can't perform. I'm realistic but who doesn't wish for a quick reboot?
     

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