I am trying again, I don't expect much from myself but, I will nonetheless give it another go. I been back and fourth on here for literally years. As a card-carrying member of NA I am sure this works and is nearly foolproof, although one must stick to it with perseverance. I went to SAA meetings for a year at the suggestion of my then sponsor and found many kindred souls there who were PMO only like myself. I also found many that I couldn't seem to identify with, but could mostly identify w/the feelings and emotions behind their OCD similar thoughts about acting out on "whatever". Anyway, I began a sexual relationship with a woman that sent me out of SAA and, consequently, led me to believe I didn't have a porn problem after all even though the reason it was suggested I go there in 1st place was the porn and aggression had cost me a marriage. So, I am back, reluctantly so. I wish I had a more positive position here but, I'm just being honest with myself. Defeated, check! Not really knowing what else to do, check! Hopeful in finding help here (not from myself), check!