recently discovered PIED, I hope I am not too late :(

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by esharkas, Dec 14, 2016.

  1. esharkas

    esharkas New Member

    First I want to thank you for your help, you opened my eyes to the cause my problem that I never figured out before...
    I want to share my story... As I 'm going to the most difficult time in my life soon.
    Two points I want to start with:
    1-My english is bad so sorry for that
    2-I live in a country and culture where sex is prohibited outside marriage, so do not feel surprised or judge me for my story as having sex is always with marriage unfortunately...
    I am 33 years old, I have been always an introvert, shy and have no relation with girls, I started to watch porn since I was 20, I became addicted to it, I remember these old days I was so in to sex and I was healthy and I am so surethat if I had sex then it would've been be perfect.
    then years after that my addiction became worse with high speed internet and I started watching every weired category of porn to satisfy myself as it became difficult to arouse myself with time. I never realized I have problem untill it happened.
    I got married 3 years back, as I said before "sex is prohibited outside marriage"it was a disaster, she was a colleague and I cannot say we loved each other much, yes the culture of my country sucks, I suck too.
    there was erection, but weak and temporary, just few minutes cannot satisfy her, I even lose erection before ejaculation many times, we both lost virginity but actually did not have real sex.
    after few awfull months we got divorced, then 2 years were the worst of my life, not only because of sexual failure but also sense of guilt that i destroyed someone's life.
    the problem I did not know what happened, why this happened to me, I consulted urologists and venereal doctors, they said I am clinically and laboratorily fine, except for some prostatic congestion, they have no idea about PIED, I guess it is not yet considered in the medical community may need more scientific researchs or something., I even went for surgery for my penis, I had moderate penile curvature and I thought it could be the cause, I insisted to correct it and I did it 2 years back successfully I guess,
    but guess what, I never quit porn after that, I never thought it was the problem, although it was destroying my life in general but I was completely addicted to it till soon, when I discovered about PIED and became sure that it accurately describes my case so, I figured out the true reason of my problem through the internet, I found your website and forum and other similar sites, I hated myself for that...
    the main big problem now I met a new girl one year before that I loved her very much,and I thought that after correction of penile curvature I am OK, Iwas wrong till I discovered the truthrecently, we are going to marry after about 50 days, you may consider me crazy and attack me for that, I don't know what to do as we cannot have sex before marriage,and I love her so much and I did not know about PIED unless recently.
    so, sex months back I am trying to quit porn, but it was very difficult, there was always frequent relapses, the longest period was 2 weeks.
    following the PIED forums gave me hope that I can heal, as the wedding become closer I am able to avoid porn more and more, I am 3 weaks now off porn and I am in a complete flat line,that is terrifying me, I think if I am with her alone in my room right now I will not develop a boner,
    I will not watch porn again I swear, but I am afraid that this flat line will persist for long time, is 60 or 70 days good for at least partial healing?
    I wish I knew my diagnosis earlier.
    please give me advice for the next 2 months before my big moment, I am working out, eating healthy food, vitamins, omega and brain stimulants, shall I take viagra or cialis and would it help? shal I start things gradually with her so not to be depressed early?
    please help me if you have any advice or tips
     
  2. esharkas

    esharkas New Member

    Thank you for your precious advice, friend. I appreciate them very much.
    Beleive me I will not watch porn again, and I hope fate to be merciful to me
     
  3. biggleii

    biggleii Member

    Don't think the problem is PIED.
     
  4. UpendiT

    UpendiT Member

    It sounds like P/MO induced ED to me. Don't listen to the people who disregard all of the success stories.
     
  5. esharkas

    esharkas New Member

    Sorry, what is this P/MO induced ED, that is different than porn induced ED
     
  6. UpendiT

    UpendiT Member

    I just split P/MO up because being addicted to MO can cause ED as well.
     
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  7. Anonymous86

    Anonymous86 Member

    Where have you read that being addicted to MO can cause ED? How is this different from PIED?
     
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  8. UpendiT

    UpendiT Member

    Personal experience having been addicted to MO since age 5 and also stories of other guys developing ED of various forms before using P.
     
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  9. Anonymous86

    Anonymous86 Member

    Can people recover from MO induced e.d.? If so, is it the same protocol from avoiding porn?
     
  10. jjveetec

    jjveetec Well-Known Member

    In my case it was personal experience...
     
  11. jjveetec

    jjveetec Well-Known Member

    Yes.
    The way - stop jerking off. You gotta work out your own way how to get there
     

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