Rebooting in a relationship

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  1. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    Hi to everyone, it's been few months that i'm following this forum, and today i decided to share my journal.

    I was a porn consumer for just about 7-8 years, but i masturbate to fetish fantasy from the begin of my sexuality and this at first gave me a bad problem of delayed ejaculation.

    So... i started this reboot for cure my delayed ejaculation and the good thing is that it worked... that bad thing is that after 10 days of wild sex i went back in flatline and from that moment i can't get out of it, at the beginning it was again for the orgasm (flatline hitting me right after sex) but now seem that multiple flatlines are just hitting me for no reason ( even if i don't orgasm).

    Sometimes it seems that things start to get better, my penis flaccid size increase and i'm able to get erection just by kissing, but after a few days i woke up with a limp dick and the cycle continues. It's possible that this is caused from porn/fetish dreams? I don't always remberber them but once i dreamed about porn and the day after i was flatlined. Any advice?

    Anyway i started counting 40 days ago, but my journey started approximately 1,5 months before, i will keep track of everything here.
     
    Last edited: Sep 25, 2019
  2. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 41

    Yesterday was day 41, my penis looked pretty dead all day, but when i met my gf it worked fine. I had sex with orgasm. Due to the fact that flatlines are hitting me for no reason i will try to have sex with moderation and see what happen. I will listen to my body and have sex only if the erection is 100% full
     
    Last edited: Sep 22, 2019
  3. kopp

    kopp Member

    Keep going. Flatline is a difficult period of time but it passes
     
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  4. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 42

    Yesterday was day 42, flaccid size looked better for most of the time, it seems that this orgasm had no negative effect
     
    Last edited: Sep 23, 2019
  5. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 43

    Yesterday was day 43, i had a good morning Wood and penis looked fine for most of the day, but in the evening some kind of minor flatline hitted me for few hours
     
  6. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 44

    Yesterday was day 44 and again i decided to have sex (last time was 3 days ago), i think it was too early because even if my body was 100% ready to go after the orgasm i felt pretty tired and depressed.
    I have to take it easy and maybe try karezza, but i'm worried about that... i mean... be so aroused for a lot of time without cum can't be like edging ?
    ( from what i know edging is bad even without P)
     
  7. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 45

    Chaser effect
     
  8. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 46

    Yesterday was day 46 and a micro-flatline hitted me for few hours during the morning, in the evening i was ok. I flatlined after 45 hours from the orgasm, that's weird because i was used to be hitted the day after.... i don't know if i have to see this change as a progress or if it is just a random thing.
     
  9. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 47

    Yesterday was day 47, i have faced a lot of ups and down both in the mood and in the penis size (it seems that micro flatline just hit me on and off during the day). I also felt the hard- flaccid effect sometimes
     
  10. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 48

    Yesterday was day 48, had the urge to MO but it wasn't a problem.
     
  11. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 51

    Yesterday was day 51, i had sex again after 1 week from the last orgasm.
     
  12. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 53

    After 2 days from the orgams the flatline is very powerfull, i think this might be because during the foreplay the things went accidentaly in a fetish related direction and this gave me a mind blowing rush of dopamine.
    I mean.. really? I have to avoid this kind of incident for my whole life or i will be hit by a flatline? (My fetish is innate) This suck!
     
  13. Universal

    Universal Member

    Hey man,

    Does your partner know about your addiction? I told mine a month ago.

    Since then, I shared her an article on Karezza (written by Gary's wife) with her: https://www.reuniting.info/wisdom/what_is_karezza

    Karezza is basically non-orgasm driven sex. My partner has been surprisingly interested. There is a lot of info on how it can keep a relationship alive after the initial 6-18 month initial infatuation period runs out.

    Could you describe your flatline symptoms? Besides the dead dick
     
  14. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    Hi, Yes my girlfriend know about this.

    My flatline symptoms basically are just dead penis, low libido and depression.
    About karezza i don't know, i wuold like to try but i'm worried that i can be like edging because you keep the arosual high for a long time without a release. Are you having good result with this method ?
     
  15. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 57

    Yesterday was day 57, from my last post I have been in flaltine, after 3 days i had another O and it made the things worse. I don't know if this is just for too much O'ing or if maybe it's just "ups and downs of dopamine" about the not linear process ( and of course orgasm fuck up the things even more in this situation, bacause they relase dopamine and give me dopamine hangover). I'm really start to thinking to try karezza like Universal suggested, but i'm worried that keep the dopamine high during karezza without a relase ( so wothout the prolactin that kills dopamine after the O) can be even worse. Anybody who have done karezza during the reboot with good result ?
     
  16. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    So today (day 61) i went to my gf, i was planning to try karezza but i lose it, orgasmed very quickly. Probabily i will enter in flatline in the next couple of days. Shit...
     
  17. Thisworld

    Thisworld New Member

    DAY 66

    It's been 5 days from my last O, no flatline. I will have my next O in 2-3 days. I have not tried karezza yet, but i will
     

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