Reboot with some questions?!! Day 107 no PM(O)???? Please help

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  1. Anewlife

    Anewlife Member

    Dear reader,

    I am an 23 year old male who used to masturbate and watch porn on a daily basis since age 13. Since i found yourbrainonporn.com i stopped masturbating and watching porn.
    I started this reboot 107 days ago. I also have a girlfriend and since i started the reboot things went downhill. I couldnt get it up anymore and when i could it wouldnt stay hard for long since i stopped watching porn and masturbating. Also when we have sex i orgasm almost immediately. I had sex (or at least we tried to have) during the whole 107 days. Is this a bad thing? Should i stop having sex with her? I really dont know what to do anymore my erections dont seem to get any better, they are a little bit better as in the beginning (where it didnt do anything). I also have a lot of flashbacks lately about porn scenes that i watched when i was younger. Is this a good sign? Please help me with your input about what to do!!

    Thank you in advance.
     
  2. reus234

    reus234 Member

    Read gameover's journal. I think you might find some simmilarities.

    http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=5280.0
     
  3. gameover

    gameover Age: 26

    Hey dude. Im 110 days in myself and have had sex every 10-12 days or so during the reboot. My erections are still bad as well, get hard from oral then lose it in 20 seconds or so if i dont put it inside her. Your arousal just is not there yet, if it is there, then the pathways from your brain to your dick have not healed yet. You just need more time away from porn some people take a year to recover.

    Porn flashbacks are a sign that you are still wired to porn more then women. Try abstaining from orgasm for a month and see if it improves your erections for sex. Keep your girl happy though with oral or something.
     
  4. Anewlife

    Anewlife Member

    Hello,
    Thank you for you input reus234 and gameover. My arousal isnt there at all. its not that i want to have sex. its more to satisfy her. (or at least try to) So you think one month without orgasm wil make things better? Dont know what to tell her about it.....
    Thank you
     
  5. gameover

    gameover Age: 26

    I know i will need maybe 6 months no orgasm to heal. Not sure about you though, you will need to test.
     
  6. Anewlife

    Anewlife Member

    6 MONTHS no orgasm to heal? i think its time for a breakup.... This needs to stop my whole life is going downhill
    im getting more depressed every day when its going like this. How do you know you need 6 months of no O to heal?
    Thanks for your help
     
  7. gameover

    gameover Age: 26

    Cause its been nearly 4 months no porn, masturbated 3 times and still do not get aroused with girls, do not get erections without a blowjob. Completely flaccid during kissing, laying naked etc

    thats why.
     
  8. Anewlife

    Anewlife Member

    Oke that clears things up a bit. I thought you were almost healed already. I am on 108 days no porn. I can get an erection when i am with my girl but its not as hard as it should be and it goes down quikly. I dont want to break up but if that will solve all the problems.. big dillemma
     
  9. reus234

    reus234 Member

    I made a post in my journal about reverse kegel excercise. Maybe you should try it.
     
  10. Anewlife

    Anewlife Member

    Hello,
    Ive read your post about the reverse kegel excersise and it makes sense to me. Can you tell me how to perform these excersises? I cant acces the PEGym.com site because of k9.
    Thank you
     
  11. reus234

    reus234 Member

    OK. give me some time and I will post it in my journal
     
  12. Anewlife

    Anewlife Member

    Thank you i will keep an eye on your journal. Do you think the PE is due over developed pc muscles? And has nothing to do with abstaining from masturbating?
    Thank you
     

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