Hello everyone. Let me put it out what's eating my brain for the past few days. I'm 23 M and from age 12 I've been attracted to hair. When I've got my own computer i started watching haircut videos and they would turn me on. Though i didn't realise that this was a fetish, i thought this wouldn't turn out to be a big problem. But i started relying more on it to jerk off. I've had a girlfriend in the past but due to various reasons we didn't get to have sex and i was completely okay with it. She had beautiful hair and everytime I was with her i used to play with it and that alone was enough to turn me on. But slowly I've realised that i wasn't really attracted to her ass or boobs or anything else. I tried jerking off to normal porn but was successful only once. I didn't enjoy it much. But i want to change it, i know that it isn't feasible for me to share/experience the fetish with my future wife. I want her to stay happy physically, emotionally and sexually as well. I'm an over thinker and all of this has made me believe that i was gay(no offence) and asexual at certain instances. I couldn't sleep for many nights. Searching through the internet i came across a success story about overcoming femdom and being able to enjoy vanilla sex. Honestly that's all i want and all i ask for. Coming to the question, from whatever i have read in the domain, the first step is to stop consuming videos related to my fetish and that will help my Brain rewire. But what should i do after that. Should i, at any time, get back to watching vanilla porn. If yes, when should i do it?. Could somebody provide me the step by step process or point me with a link that could provide the complete information. I request all of you to help me out in this. It's way too much weight I'm carrying and honestly i want to end this all and be like a normal person.