Okay so I'm a self confessed loser when it comes to dating. However I'm not angry or mad about it, though I'm somewhat sexually frustrated. I'm a virgin but that's by pure choice. I'm a traditional man who believes in reproducing only with my (future) wife. However that does not mean I don't desire female companionship. The thing is I've tried almost everything in the last one year to somehow get a girlfriend. Followed all guides to somehow get one girl. But I've failed time and again. Don't tell me to lower my standards and go for ugly girls, that's not going to happen. I've already lowered my standards a lot I've gone from 8/10 to 5/10 I'm not going any lower. No chance. So here's the deal. I have made up my mind that come what may I'm going to hit on/approach women once I begin my reboot. I don't care about being rejected anymore. Heck I don't even care being labelled as a pervert or as being desperate. I dont care how weird I may look but I have to do something; anyways I have nothing to lose, I've already hit rock bottom. Here is my plan- 1) As of now there are 10 girls in my life whom I'm really attracted to. Not all of them know me, as in, who I am. But, I am not a total stranger for those girls, they know me as a person whom they have seen time and again. Shortly put they don't know me directly, but they know me in an indirect manner. 2) I've decided once my reboot starts I'll directly walk up to those girls (of course one girl at a time), then talk to them & introduce myself and ask them out/tell them I find them attractive and I'll also give them my number. I'll conclude by saying stuff like if you're interested/want things to go forward please contact me or make me know. 3) If I don't get a call/message for more than 10 days or when the next time I see the said girl and I find her trying to avoid me/ignore me then I'll not bother her anymore and move on to the next girl. 4) Will do this for all the 10 girls if possible. (But suppose the second girl I approach accepts my proposal then I'll stop at her and forget about the rest) 5) Hopefully I'll be able to convince at least one to start contact with me and then by God's blessings even get them to go out on a date with me. I know many people over here might ridicule me or would disagree with step #2 and I can see why. But frankly speaking I don't care anymore. What could happen at the worse? I'll be cussed at? I'll get rejected? I'll get a slap across the face? I'll be labelled a weirdo or a creep? I'll have her boyfriend (if any) threaten me? She'll call the cops? (I'm a law student by the way I won't do anything illegal or anything unlawful which could land me in trouble, I'll approach the girl in a very polite and civilized manner and not resort to anything slightly vulgar, lewd or offensive.) I'm ready to face any of those things head on. None of them can be as damaging as PMO. Also I would like to add here that I don't want to go by that "friend" route or "first know her and come close to her" route. I've failed so many times doing that... Further more I have no intentions of being friend zoned I'll rather be a hopeless loner like I am currently, than be in the friend zone. So no I'll not be doing that bullshit anymore and I'll be direct. I'll be honest from the beginning and make MY intentions known to her right from the start (that I intend on being in a romantic/intimate relationship with her) and then if I lose so be it. At least I'll be satisfied that I tried and there won't be any "What ifs" later on. So that's my plan. I know it is not the best of ideas or the most perfect way. But life isn't picture perfect. However ridiculous my plan may sound I'm going forward with it once I begin abstinence. Now this is where I need some help. If let's assume one of these girl does indeed show interest in me and is actually willing to take things forward, then what? Then what should I do? I've had zero experience in romantic relationships. About what should I talk with her? With my rather few female acquaintances I exclusively discuss academics, politics or college work. So with my potential girlfriend what exactly should I be doing? I cannot talk about sex straightaway that'll be stupid. With my friends(guys) we mostly talk about sports, politics, how our lives are shaping up or how well they are faring in the dating scene. But if I do get a girlfriend, that'll be a completely different story! About what stuff should I talk with her? Fashion? Her college? Her hobbies/habits? Sport? What exactly? I feel like a toddler who's just learning to write! So please tell me; if I do succeed with my plan and can actually get one girl with me; how should my interactions be with her, how should our conversations shape up? I don't want to walk in the arena without any knowledge, that way I'll be a lamb to the slaughter and I will then surely be dumped very quickly. P.S. I've heard/read that when you're with a woman let her do the majority of the talking and be a good listener. How relevant is this theory? ???