BINGO. To a T. Same here. She never told me she was BPD, actually I just discovered what BPD was when googling about the situation and she was a textbook BPD from start to finish. Given how scary accurate the descriptions were, I think it's fair to say she was absolutely a BPD. The good news is we can avoid these types in the future. This one sucked the energy out of me to the point of a mental breakdown after only 3 weeks of crazy insane sex. That's how they hook you, their only redeeming quality is the crazy sex. Without it, we wouldn't put up with that insanity for more than a day or two.