I am a porn addict, have been since I was 17(?), now 28. Realised by reading some of your sister sites that I am a textbook case. I feel that many a social/career opportunity has been missed by a general feeling of fogginess, malaise and anxiety. I am now in a long term relationship (engaged), with the love of my life. She is also a porn user and I have told her I feel I have a problem and says she doesn't care whether I look at porn or not - but the problem is it matters to me and makes me feel guilty, grotty and generally awful, and TBH I'd much rather my sexuality revolved around her than 2D strangers. Also I have noticed the beginnings of ED, which may have been just a temporary hitch, but I'm not taking any chances! I need to shake this off, I want to feel confident, focused and in control of my libido (I'm not now - no matter how I may try and fool myself). So I'm giving it all up starting now, and want to transition to a fullfilling sex life unemcumbered by these hollow, damaging solo persuits that have very little in common with the real thing. I hope it improves my energy levels because I have a lot of plans for this year and I'm always so damn tired and unmotivated. So here goes! I know its going to be really hard, but wish me luck!