Hello Friends. Just discovered this website and yes I am an ED sufferer looking for answers. First a bit about myself. I am 58 married to a 43 year old ,really beautifull and sexy little blond girl with a fantastic body for 25 years.About the time we got married porn and the internet just became available to us here in South Africa. About 20 years before that we got television for the first time . I am married to a wife that never denied me anything ever.I behaved like a spoilled brat throughout my life and over indulged in the extreme in everything. Nothing in moderation ever for me. Offcourse I immediately took to porn like a duck to water. I had enough energy to completely indulge in porn and the wife everyday of my life no problem. Afterall I had it under control and no problem for me (or so I thought ) About a year ago I realised I am starting to have some serious erection problems. A real shock to me. My age I could do nothing about. Wife and I really love each other. The weight piled on over the years and I decided to seriously make some drastic lifestyle changes in my life. The porn stayed though.The wife and I still carried on having fun and enjoying each other just minus the erection on my side. Past year I have lost 27 kg . Feel fit and healthy but still no erection.I can actually climax a few times in a evening without an erection. I am constantly still horny for my wife but nothing is happening downstairs. Spend hours doing research on the internet and is how I discovered this website. After reading and learning from other members stories here everything just clicked for me and became clear to me.I was uncontrollably addicted to sex,porn and masturbation. So yes I am serious about starting this journey back to some form of normality and hopefully regaining some degree of an erection. Thank you to all the members here for opening my eyes with their stories. Excuse my grammar as english is not my first language.