Need serious help to overcome this absolutely disguisting habit

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  1. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    Hello there, I am a 17 year old struggling with this disguisting habit that always leaves me feeling extremely guilty. It seriously is messing me up, messing my motivation and drive. I normally fap to porn like 2-3 times max a week. I used to do it everyday but I have cutdown. I now want to totally get rid of it in my life. I want to start a 90 day challenge and totally quit after that.

    Thank you!

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  2. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    TODAY IS DAY 0
     
  3. I_ambob

    I_ambob New Member

    I assume you know about yourbrainonporn.com right? This is probably the key to making a lasting permanent change.
    http://yourbrainonporn.com/im-going-reveal-you-1-secret-overcome-pornography-addiction
     
  4. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    Thank you very much mate for the link. Had a read of it and let's hope I can overcome this addiction.
     
  5. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    Uh :( I failed on Day 1... Day 1 starts again tommorow. Will seriously try my best. Wish me luck!
     
  6. I_ambob

    I_ambob New Member

    https://youtu.be/GdS19NsImBU

    You need this
     
  7. jnjjn

    jnjjn Member

    don do that...It doesn't work that way man. sorry.

    Do a 2 week challenge and work yourself up

    Goodluck!
     
  8. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    Thank you for everything peeps!

    DAY 2 Complete. Had slight urges today but held them together.

    Let's see if I can go a week first!
     
  9. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    6 days complete. Quite happy with how I have been distracting myself from the urges to masturbate! Still a long way to go yet.
     
  10. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    Uhhh. Last night I fapped to porn :( ended my 6 days streak! Today I go again and try to reach my 90 goal target
     
  11. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    UHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. 3 day streak fapped to porn. Seriously need to stop watching porn!
     
  12. Alphaman

    Alphaman New Member

    bro are you fucking kidding with me
    so you can't bear one weak without fapping to porn
    gimme a break
    I was once like you 2 or 3 years ago
    I was just a loser just like you
    and now I will tell you the ugly truth
    that you don't wanna hear
    you aren't going to quit porn anywhere soon...
    I am not trying to demotivate you
    but it will take you a bit longer than 3 years
    and you may not even completely quit
    remember what I said because you will keep failing and falling and falling and failing.......
    and regret is going to kill you.
    and before you even notice,, 3 years of your life have already passed and nothing have changed, you haven't changed, may even got worse.
    you will still be the same loser with a big space in his life ,with no goal
    and he fills that space with porn with coloured pixels.. how pathetic
    but the only problem is that porn makes him worse than before and the space becomes bigger so he watches more porn 'hoping' it will fix things up
    everytime he watches porn he says this will be my last time.. but he is wrong it will be like any other time
    he will google 'how to quit porn I can't take it any more' as if there is a fucking hidden secret
    but the only thing that he didn't know that he already knew all what he needed
    but even if he had all what he needed to quit porn....
    he will just keep relapsing and relapsing and the his years shall pass in regret and shit
    4 years from now remember that I knew all of that would happen
     
  13. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    Some serious advice right there lad. I will definately take that in.. Cheers.
     
  14. ChrisHaven

    ChrisHaven Member

    Don't let anyone demotivate you bro. Yes, the journey is long- but you have made a decision to quit at a time when there are thousands of resources available including this forum.

    Stay strong.

    I'm 7 + years PMO free after 11 years of porn and masturbation EVERYDAY!!

    You got this!
     
  15. kira

    kira Member

    What Alphaman just said is my lives story. I am 21 now and still addicted to this shit. You are too young man I would trade anything to be 17again.

    You may not fully realize it now but this shit will take you to the deepest abyss but only if you let it so take your reboot seriously and get out while you are young! Dont let this ruin your best years.

    You may fail a few times but regretting it and feeling sorry wont help. Get back on the horse and day by day you get ahead in incremental steps until you are free.

    Dont focus on abstaining. Focus on building a good life
     
  16. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    Thank you so much for the advice. You can get over it too. It's never too late trust me!
     
  17. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    Cheers mate. Dw nothing demotivates me if I have a goal!
     
  18. jnjjn

    jnjjn Member

    Keep fighting man! Try coming out with your addiction to a friend, family member, college councilor, anything. Once you get it out in the light, it will no longer have the same power over you. I PROMISE. Good luck


    'Fight for your new life! hit me up if you need help, do not stay silent!'
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  19. BusbyBabe

    BusbyBabe New Member

    Seriously struggling to put a run of days together. My top streak is 14 days. I need some motivation... Very hard getting out of this habit.
     
  20. kira

    kira Member


    Did you try noA?
     

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