Dear Gabe, thanks for being active on this thread as I'm sure we all need to hear your experience. I have no qualms with abstinence and am determined to avoid P/M/O all together for a better sex life. However, I have heard that if one doesn't use his tool frequently, it kinda shrinks. Hope it's just a myth, but I have came across of cases where some men have their peckers shrink and this is what is stopping me. Just wanna clear the air before I embark on my journey.