my story

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by mikel_70, Aug 16, 2023.

  1. mikel_70

    mikel_70 New Member

    Hello, 42 years, more than 20 years of PMO, 4 years ago to today no erection with sex, no erection with porn, viagra
    sometimes works well but most of the time it works bad.
    I want to start leaving P and M but having sex 3-4 times a month.
    I don't know if I'll be able to do it.
    I also have depression and mental fog for other things.
    Last edited: Aug 16, 2023
  2. Kenshin81

    Kenshin81 New Member

    I'm in the same boat, except that with porn+masturbation I can still have erections (even if not at its fullest). But I can't have erection or sex with a girl, even with viagra as well.
    I've made different streaks, the latest was the longest (63 days) and the only real benefit I saw was the return of morning woods, which made me happier at the beginning, but still depressing the first time I tried to have sex with a girl, and saw almost no erection due to total lacking of sexual arousal/libido.
  3. DBA

    DBA Active Member

    Are you sure that the problems when you are with a girl are not due to performance anxiety?

    If you get ED, you need to take the pressure off yourself completely. Pleasure her, and let her pleasure you.
    Don't try penetration till you have rebooted for many more days and can have decent erections when you
    are not with a girl. And even then, relax, it doesn't matter if you can't penetrate or cum. You can use your
    hand (gently) and mouth to pleasure her.
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  4. Caz

    Caz Active Member

    welcome both.
    1.. admission is a great start.

    I’m nowhere near a success story. But I can see how bad P is now

    start the climb out of the mountain

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