Posi-vibes to you, Bro. I can only imagine the stress you're facing but I'm stoked to see you staying on track through it. Please don't take this as unsolicited advice but purely an observation based on my own experience: I find sms to be an appalling means of communication when it comes to anything important, anything emotionally charged. It's so fraught with potential for misunderstanding... personally I will call someone asap, or arrange a time to meet and talk if I receive a text that's emotionally charged as there is way too much potential for ambiguity. Just a thought. Peace to ya, mate.