My Journey To Success

Discussion in 'Ages 25-29' started by ace1234, Aug 2, 2012.

  1. ace1234

    ace1234 A woman simply is, but a man must become.

    Damn just relapsed hard. I feel hopeless.
     
  2. ace1234

    ace1234 A woman simply is, but a man must become.

    Day unknown

    Very difficult day.

    Otherwise good, but problem was that reoccurring thought came up. Very troubling and it scares me every time I have it. It's like an anxiety attack.
     
  3. ace1234

    ace1234 A woman simply is, but a man must become.

    3 days 19hrs

    First time in a while I've been able to go 3 solid days of being clean. I feel good and honestly proud of myself. Just every day that I don't do it my skin and body feels better, not to mention my mind is clearer. I honestly think the consequences are catching up to me. I don't know if thats a good thing or bad, but I will use it as best I can. Still have more than half my life to live and I want to live it pure.

    Glad I came in here today. I wanted to write this in the morning but its evening now.

    Been a stressful couple of days. Not really sure about some things any more.
     
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  4. Deleted User

    Deleted User Guest

    So you should be! It´s time to keep this going. Steady the ship and soon you won´t have to worry about staying afloat.
     
  5. ace1234

    ace1234 A woman simply is, but a man must become.

    thanks was beginning to think this place was dead

    Day 5 11 hr 30 min

    Overwhelming sense of emotion. Feels very intense.
     
  6. ace1234

    ace1234 A woman simply is, but a man must become.

    9 days

    Tipping point. Make or break. I feel like Im about to break, but its ok because I recognize it. Pretty stressed about money right now. Nothing really working. So far everything failing.

    Had a close call this morning, but I caught myself and did everything I could to get my mind back to why I wanted to do this. Time is running out.
     
  7. Deleted User

    Deleted User Guest

    Money is always a source of stress, you are doing well and like you already know porn solves nothing. Money problems are more
    easier to solve with a clearer mind :D
     
  8. ace1234

    ace1234 A woman simply is, but a man must become.

    So I ended up with a relapse about 10 days ago, but I am on day 10 right now.

    day 10 17 hr

    Pretty shit start to my week. Hopefully it gets better. Feel stressed as usual. Money still a problem. I had an uncontrollable fit where I may have irritated one of my friends when we were playing a game. It's ok because I apologized and defused the situation. It is however very indicative of the current stress I am under emotionally.

    The current period of my life feels like a very dark wood. I have seen the light, but it was so very brief. Makes me want to give up all hope. So this means that I am dealing with some strong emotions today. They can overwhelm me, but I have already gotten a hold of myself for the most part. I am going to let go of all the things that are causing me to panic and stress. At this point I have nothing to lose.
     
  9. ace1234

    ace1234 A woman simply is, but a man must become.

    17 Day 22 hrs

    Noticing a lot of anger. Lots of rage and hatred. I keep thinking about everyone who's slighted me. There is just so much emotion it is very overwhelming. Under any other circumstances, I am sure I would relapse.

    This time I'm letting it pass through me. It's uncomfortable and I don't want these feelings. Some of them are too intense. Thoughts of suicide, even I dare say harming others, even though I would never want to actually do that. The thoughts have a lot of justification and reasoning behind them which makes them so powerful and alluring.

    Otherwise, I feel good and am happy with current progress. Despite feeling angry and irritated or tense, I am actually feeling okay. My acne is subsiding, but I doubt it will all go away soon. Maybe with a year progress it will clear up significantly.

    Mind does feel a little clearer, but I could possibly notice more changes next week, assuming I make it that far. I am going to keep going as best I can. Just need to get through today. Can't worry about tomorrow.

    Hopefully, things will get better from here. I always find the first two weeks to be very difficult and third one isn't any easier, but that's enough darkness for now.

    There's more light than darkness ahead. I at least know that. I sometimes try to think about how people lived before the internet and pornography. Sometimes I watch old movies and everyone usually has a full head of hair. I digress though, my point is that nobody jacked off as much as we have. They all lived and survived. So it helps me when I get those sneaky thoughts that tell me I NEED to do it, because I don't.
     
  10. MasterKrug

    MasterKrug New Member

    Hey Ace, I noticed you started this journal in 2012, and that's about time when I started taking porn seriously and trying to quit.

    I've always found it much harder for me to quit than for most other people (most aren't severely addicted.)

    Seems like you're going through similar struggles, we are also similar ages. Maybe we can help each other out.

    Notice you're on 17 days! Fuck yeah, keep it up.
     
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  11. ace1234

    ace1234 A woman simply is, but a man must become.

    Thanks for coming into my journal to make a post MasterKrug. I really didn't even expect anyone to still read this. Yeah still trying and just constantly failing. Lots of depression, lots of anger. We can for sure. Just tell me what you're thinking when you read mine and I will do the same for you.


    day 19 14 hr

    I have some bad news. I had a minor relapse. I realized it was because I was suppressing my anger. So next time I'm confronted with the same situation I am not going to ignore it and pretend everything is ok.

    It was after I stopped peaking and edging that I realized that this is the only solution. It's only going to make me angrier if it continues. And that is only going to make me want to seek more lust to numb my pain.

    I clearly don't want that as evidenced me being here.I spent about an hour the night before on it and this morning for about 45 min.

    Progress has been hampered. I am not going to lie. I have been waking with constant morning wood, but this morning there was nothing.

    Yes, I regret it. I am also moving on and not going to do it again. The rest of the day will be unaroused and clean.
     
  12. MasterKrug

    MasterKrug New Member

    I've been thinking about why some men have a hard time recovering, and after speaking with my coach I think I may have a possible answer.

    In my opinion, Western Medicine doesn't know shit about healing. Sure we have made advances in understanding the physical body, but we are so much more than a machine.

    That why I like Traditional Chinese Medicine. There is a much more holistic view on things. And when it comes to porn use and ejaculation, TCM says that it drains a vital energy force called Jing.

    This Jing is first depleted from the balls, and then once the balls are out it comes from the kidneys, and you start feeling extra shitty.

    Lots of guys who do NoFap, are NOT doing anything about replenishing and healing their kidneys. There is a sexual practice on how to do it. Look up the micro cosmic orbit.

    I don't know enough about this topic to help out further, but my coach has me doing this practice. I will learn more about it and share if you'd like.

    I see guys struggling still after 100 days, or even after a few years. I would like to figure out why.
     
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  13. GokuSSB_XMAXX

    GokuSSB_XMAXX Member

    Sure! We'd love to know more about it. Micro cosmic orbit, I will keep that in mind.
     
  14. MasterKrug

    MasterKrug New Member

    @GokuSSB_XMAXX

    I tried it today, and wow I noticed a difference this time.

    before when I did the microcosmic orbit, I only did the visualization part. Today I actually did the part where you contract your PC muscles, and it was noticeably more effective.

    it’s still very tricky, I feel like I contract all the muscles at once and not isolated, but I guess that’s normal in the beginning.

    The analogy my coach gave me was to imagine honey being squeezed like toothpaste up your spine and then drip down your front. This will make sense if you look up microcosmic orbit.
     
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  15. GokuSSB_XMAXX

    GokuSSB_XMAXX Member

    Wow, I always thought the chakra stuff is only taught by Indian yogis. Thanks a lot for sharing this, mate. This is really interesting!
     
  16. MasterKrug

    MasterKrug New Member

    It's definitely working it's way to the western world. That also means you have to be careful where you get your info. Lot of crap out there.
     
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  17. GokuSSB_XMAXX

    GokuSSB_XMAXX Member

    Sure!
     
  18. ace1234

    ace1234 A woman simply is, but a man must become.

    Day 2

    Yep. Relapsed and felt really shitty. I wanted one peak and look where that got me. Porn only feels pleasurable because it releases the dopamine, but it's releasing it in such a way that only harm. It's meant to be released with a partner or loved one, how God intended things to be.

    I have very little hope I can beat or recover from this. I am still going to try because the only other option is being enslaved to this thing even further. My acne hasn't gone away and always gets worse after precum, don' even need to orgasm. Speaking of orgams I haven't had one in a long time. I just edge, because I don't ever even want to finish anyway.

    So finally, my hair today has been falling out at a more accelerated pace. I counted about 20 hairs or so from my head and I don't even have much hair left anyway.

    It pisses me off that there is shit on the internet stating this is a myth. It isn't. I don't give a shit what anyone else says. We are living in a messed up world where all the information is false. Everything is doctored and has an agenda. I honestly, don't want to be on the planet anymore.

    At the same time, I still have these urges to watch porn and I fucking hate it. I don't want to engage in that shit. I don't want to masturbate like my roomate is right now in the shower. I can hear him jacking off every morning.

    I am starting from zero again. I fucking cave every time around 3 weeks. I need to survive it somehow.
     

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