My Fiance was a secret Porn addict for 6 years!

Discussion in 'Women' started by JessicaAxters, Nov 23, 2016.

  1. JessicaAxters

    JessicaAxters New Member

    Hey! Great to be part of this group! I just found out a few weeks ago that my fiance is a porn addict. This has been so devastating- I've been sitting with this and trying to be present for weeks, but it is eating me up inside. Everyday I'm aware of so much pain and distrust inside me..I'm hurt because I love him, but I JUST CANT trust him anymore and its killing me. I'm not a social media person(to my detriment) because he had some secrets there as well- you have no idea how relieved I am to find a group of ladies who are going through this- There is so much I want to let out, but I read the rules of the group and I dont want to trigger anyone.
    I had caught him watching porn before, and was slightly worried, but I didnt confront him until until my friend recommended this video and it pretty much confirmed my suspicions-anyone heard of him?
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qx-hA8wNxis&t=154s
    I'm just glad I'm not alone in this. I'm looking for any kind of resource that can help me handle this- its pretty rough.Any suggestions?
     
  2. Mik2

    Mik2 Aka NwaltRed

  3. Mik2

    Mik2 Aka NwaltRed

    Coming back to this, why do you feel that your trust has been betrayed, have you made it clear to him in the past that porn is unacceptable to you? Does he describe himself as a porn addict or do you see any distinction between porn use and porn addiction?

    I don't know your situation, so I won't rush to any judgments, I'd welcome your input on this particular thread: http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/...out-about-partners-use-a-little-unfair.36590/

    The thread might seem a little confrontational, but I assure you that I have an open mind, and I'm not going to say that you are overreacting when I don't have the full story.
     

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