@Mozenjo, ahh, Summer I would definitely missed that b/c I wasn't around. Well, Congratulations! For the engagement and having something of substance to drive your work to get off porn! At our age every single one of us has baggage we bring with us. The tough thing I find is that very early on in a dating dynamic (like first date sometimes) the women want to know the gist at least of your baggage. Did you cheat? Fail financially? Jail? Porn? Drugs? Boozer? .... I think just about all of those (and, no, I have not been in jail!) are easier to address than "porn". It is ugly! Here's to you never being asked but living everyday with the "not anymore" answer! Have a great week, Moz!