Hi. So new and only beginning to understand the problem. I started finding porn with a parabolic antenna tv, long before internet and very young, maybe 11 or 12. Every media ever since. The urge to find porn is hard to control. I have lived with mind fog and depression most of my life maybe related to this problem. I also had anorgasmia for some time but that was related to antidepressants. I was prescribed many different and they all hurt me. In my opinion, men shouldn't use them. Not sexism, they just hurt my reproductive system very much. I have girl friends and family who have a good experience with them and I'm the only guy I know who took them. Why did I kept on trying? Suicidal thoughts have been a constant life companion to say the least. The thing is I am sure in my case anorgasmia was related to them, not porn. I do not agree with the general opinion here about masturbation to be honest. I think it is healthy and natural. It is important to know your body, your likes and dislikes. The problem begins with abuse of your body. You can't stop eating just because you have extra weight, you just need to learn how to eat well... and enjoy it! I hope I'm not too old now. 39, happily married with one child hoping to have more. My wife had post partum depression and intimacy has been an issue, so I went back to porn. Pandemic, financial and social stress are not helping. Question for married guys: have any of you talked to your wife about this? How did that work? Should I? She knows everything about me, I love her, we are great together but I'm ashamed to tell. No P or M starting today. Wish me luck.