Mad Dog

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by Mad Dog, Jul 10, 2020.

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  1. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    Iam barely speaking to Heather. Iam still so pissed about what happened. Forget sex that not happening. I dont know of I will ever trust her again.
     
  2. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    I hope things work out, my friend.
     
  3. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    Thx Saville! I hope they do also . I
     
  4. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    Heather accused me of cheating on her --- that's it !
     
  5. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    What brought that on?
     
  6. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    I ha e been faithful ! I have been because that's what I want for me. My work she wa ts me to close the business ! A serious problem she is getting " crazy " my sister- in- law says she is " crazy " she won't even listen to her.
     
  7. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    Yes, of course you are faithful. You do seem to have a lot of clients who are of the "hot" variety. Perhaps if you only took on older women and men as clients?
     
  8. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    Saville, yes there are a lot of " hot" women thats just a fact of the business. She has to trust me soon will it be dancing ? Besides It's very profitable. Iam not going to be threatened.
     
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  9. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    We had a serious talk last nite she no longer wants to dance. So be it ! Wants me to quit ! Ain't gonna happen! I love dancing !
     
  10. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    Where did this sudden fear of hers come from?
     
  11. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    Nicole moving out Heather going to her condo for a while. Apparently the fear was always there she was just hiding it. I know I can't live with someone who is constantly suspicious of my actions. We will see what happens. Very sad, love her very much .
     
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  12. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    I don't want Nicole to go. We have become like brother and sister. Love she is very upset also..
     
  13. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    Nicole should go. You aren't married to her. Marriages, even solid ones, go through such times as these. I get that you don't want to be "bullied" into submission, but your bride must also feel safe.
     
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  14. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    If you read back she is ! I just was expressing very honest emotions I will not be bullied if Heather thinks she can look out if I get pissed.
     
    Last edited: Apr 23, 2022
  15. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    This whole thing is starting to piss me off ! I will not be bullied! If Heather thinks she c an poor her ! Divorce first I was bullied for 26 years in my 1st marriage that will not happen again.
     
  16. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    Heather called me at club tonite. Was busy but I was very soft demeanor. Then she started said bullshit and I told her I haven't got time for this and hung up
     
  17. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    I don't think it has to be an either/or situation, does it? I get that you don't want to put up with her bullshit, but I think there's probably room for gentleness and a bit of compromise.
     
  18. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    Iam certainly willing to , compromise I love her! ❤️
     
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  19. Mad Dog

    Mad Dog Well-Known Member

    She called me tonite and we had a sensible conversation. I will nit close. Y business nor will I stop dancing she agrees but what will we do to make her more comfortable ?
     
  20. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    Just continue to love her. Also, if a hot woman comes for a massage, don't tell her about it. There's an old expression "hang your fiddle at the door." It means don't bring trouble into the house. Your work stays your work, kind of like a trip to Vegas. :D Heather just wants to feel secure and women need to be constantly reassured, even the hard dike lesbians. :p Marriages work when there is also great friendship.
     

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