Iam barely speaking to Heather. Iam still so pissed about what happened. Forget sex that not happening. I dont know of I will ever trust her again.
I ha e been faithful ! I have been because that's what I want for me. My work she wa ts me to close the business ! A serious problem she is getting " crazy " my sister- in- law says she is " crazy " she won't even listen to her.
Yes, of course you are faithful. You do seem to have a lot of clients who are of the "hot" variety. Perhaps if you only took on older women and men as clients?
Saville, yes there are a lot of " hot" women thats just a fact of the business. She has to trust me soon will it be dancing ? Besides It's very profitable. Iam not going to be threatened.
We had a serious talk last nite she no longer wants to dance. So be it ! Wants me to quit ! Ain't gonna happen! I love dancing !
Nicole moving out Heather going to her condo for a while. Apparently the fear was always there she was just hiding it. I know I can't live with someone who is constantly suspicious of my actions. We will see what happens. Very sad, love her very much .
Nicole should go. You aren't married to her. Marriages, even solid ones, go through such times as these. I get that you don't want to be "bullied" into submission, but your bride must also feel safe.
If you read back she is ! I just was expressing very honest emotions I will not be bullied if Heather thinks she can look out if I get pissed.
This whole thing is starting to piss me off ! I will not be bullied! If Heather thinks she c an poor her ! Divorce first I was bullied for 26 years in my 1st marriage that will not happen again.
Heather called me at club tonite. Was busy but I was very soft demeanor. Then she started said bullshit and I told her I haven't got time for this and hung up
I don't think it has to be an either/or situation, does it? I get that you don't want to put up with her bullshit, but I think there's probably room for gentleness and a bit of compromise.
She called me tonite and we had a sensible conversation. I will nit close. Y business nor will I stop dancing she agrees but what will we do to make her more comfortable ?
Just continue to love her. Also, if a hot woman comes for a massage, don't tell her about it. There's an old expression "hang your fiddle at the door." It means don't bring trouble into the house. Your work stays your work, kind of like a trip to Vegas. Heather just wants to feel secure and women need to be constantly reassured, even the hard dike lesbians. Marriages work when there is also great friendship.
