SLAA (sex love addicts anonymous) has been a game changer. Bit about me, I'm 40 been watching porn since I was 12ish. Had issues with it for 10 years. Seen therapists, read all the literature, been on forums, tried pretty much everything. I could never get more than 2 weeks to a month of porn free time up. 2 months ago I got sick of relapsing and decided to really try and do everything I could to make a change. I swallowed my pride and went to a SLAA meeting. Has been an absolute game changer. To have a structured program aimed at supporting addicts and other understanding people to talk to regularly has made a huge amount of difference. I now have 2 months up (first time ive deliberately had this much time up), and feeling strong and supported. For anyone that is consistently relapsing and feel at wits end, or even if you are just starting on this journey I really suggest you give SLAA a go. You may not relate to all the content but there is a lot of good stuff in there and a lot of people who struggle with porn use. It's free, there are groups everywhere and you can join groups online. It's very open an supporting with no judgement and a caring community. Best of luck to everyone still struggling with this. The last 2 months have been the most empowering and freeing of my whole relationship with the life draining issue. I wish this for everyone.
