I want to post a recommendation: John Sonmez of simpleprogrammer.com and his YouTube channel. The premise of his channel/site is: soft skills for programmers. But this includes a bunch of general life-improvement stuff that's relevant to potentially everyone. He is opinionated, sometimes brash, always direct. Maybe polarising. I like that. In particular, some videos are advice for men in the realm of dating and relationships, collected in this playlist, 'Attracting Women And Becoming A Better Man For Programmers': https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjwWT1Xy3c4WvCoCir3GAyWSlUjFH1T2u As you can see from the 2nd video there, he's covered the porn addiction issue. But this is not his focus. Who else here watches John? Any opinions? Anyone got a favourite video of his?